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What a strange, fumbling kind of justice system it is that condemns a woman as an unfit mother for the heinous crime of trusting her husband. Yet this is what seems to have happened in a recent case that I feel compelled to write about, even though legal restrictions force me to leave out much of the detail.
The nub of the case is this. A woman, let us call her Janie, gave birth to her
first and only child a year ago. That baby was taken away from her and
subsequently put up for adoption. Not because of her own failure to care for
the baby — her own love and care never seem to have been in question. No.
She has lost her baby because of a suspicion that her husband John may have
injured another child in his previous marriage almost ten years ago.
The suspicion was no more than that. John was never charged with anything, let
alone convicted. Social workers were never sufficiently worried to take that
first child into care. Since his divorce John has shared custody of that
child perfectly amicably with his ex-wife. Yet the same local authority
which left the first child with him has forbidden him to see this new baby.
And his new wife, despite having nothing to do with the first case, may
never see her baby again.
Unless this case is overruled in the European Court of Human Rights (ECHR) in
Strasbourg, where it is now heading, it will set a peculiar precedent. For
it implies that any British mother could be penalised for choosing a partner
to whom the State has taken a dislike: penalised with the loss of the thing
that is most precious to her in the world.
It cannot be this simple, you are thinking. Well, not quite. The child of the
first marriage is disabled, and did seem to have suffered an injury — I am
not permitted to say more. But no one knows how. Both John and his first
wife have always protested their innocence. They had a second child who came
to no harm. No court will ever truly know whether John was innocent. But the
fact is that he was never found guilty. For the local authority to leave him
alone with a child that it thought he had harmed, and to take away another
that had not been harmed, is utterly hypocritical. No court should be able
to punish you for a crime you may commit, when there is no evidence.
It should, surely, be a crime to remove a newborn baby from a mother who has
never harmed it.
For that in itself is a form of abuse. Yet the secret State often chooses to
abuse the children itself, rather than let them run the risk of staying put.
They are at least alive, it calculates, even if it is a diminished kind of
alive, deprived of the mother bond. And too often, it strikes the wrong
balance. In 2002, the ECHR ruled against the British Government for removing
a new baby from its mother in hospital and refusing even to let her cuddle
it under supervision, when there was no evidence that the baby faced a
serious risk at that time. The judgment came too late, though. The baby had
already been adopted.
This is what Janie fears. The ECHR has agreed to hear her appeal and to
consider whether the English court ruling breached Janie and John’s right to
family life, to freedom of opinion and to freedom of expression. That is
quite a ticket. But even if the ECHR finds in Janie’s favour, it may be too
late. The local authority is already seeking families to adopt her baby. Her
only hope is that prospective adopters will be put off by knowing of her
appeal.
Any lawyer will tell you that family courts are the B-side of the legal
system. The majority of judgments will never be read outside the courtroom.
Perhaps judges fear the consequences if they do not support social services
and social services are later proved right. They seem to start from the
assumption that children are de facto wards of court who need protection
from their parents.
Even then, Janie’s case seems extraordinary. Certainly the parents are not the
brightest people in the world. They are not perfect. But the more I learn
about it, the more I believe that Janie and John’s biggest mistakes were
emotional. Janie seems to have been very co-operative. However, John has
been irritable, even aggressive, which would support the view that he has a
violent nature. But can you really convict on that basis? Which of us could
control our temper if faced with losing a child to a bunch of hypocrites? In
a Hollywood movie, anger is a natural reaction to injustice. In an English
suburb, defiance makes you guilty. The legal system wants “remorse”. But how
can you show remorse for something you haven’t done?
Until this case I had tended to be sceptical about the claims that the
Government’s targets for adoption were leading to miscarriages of justice. I
still feel that ministers were right to want to speed up adoption and to
release more children more quickly from the hell of care. But I have now
started to take more seriously the argument that these targets have created
a perverse incentive for local authorities to take more babies into care.
Babies are, after all, more attractive to prospective adopters than older
children and therefore an easy way to reach those targets. In Janie and
John’s case, you do have to wonder why the authorities have rushed to take
away a healthy baby, when they did not take away a disabled one.
Janie’s case seems to me to make a strong argument for introducing juries. Why
is a burglar facing six months in jail allowed to ask for a jury trial, but
a mother facing the irretrievable loss of her only child is not? Mistakes
will always be made when the ordinary, imperfect citizen is judged by the
imperfect and powerful. Personally, I would rather face 12 men good and true.

Camilla Cavendish has been a McKinsey management consultant, an aid worker, and CEO of a not-for-profit company. She is now a leader writer and columnist on The Times
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Welcome to the twilight world of Family law(David M) the trouble is the so called professionals you list do not have an answer so to cover their own backs they do this! ( wonder what would happen if your child was hurt whilst in care) A one line comment from CAMHS stops my contact on mums say so!
Dave Farmer, Broxbourne, England
It is well nigh time for the laws on adoption to be changed - retrospectively! The argument against reversing unsafe adoptions (or simply changes of heart) is that this "may unsettle the child". This kind of reasoning is specious. Children are robust and adaptable. And they usually want to go home!
Gary Orman, London,
HELP!!!. At 5 days old our son was re-admitted to hospital, bleeding was found in his head. An injection stopped this but how it started wasn't known. Of the many reasons it was decided that as being voilently shaken was one, when discharged at one month old he was put into foster care.
That was nearly a year ago, in that time there's been a process of social workers, exaggerations, lies, solicitors, police, court, and more. In October a 5 day hearing found that a feeding problem which developed before discharge on his second day of life had prevented oxygen being carried by the blood, resulting in a blood vessel bursting. But by now social services had developed a whole chapter of reasons for us not to have him back without being forced to undergo certain procedures.
I'm self employed, I have a mortgage and business. On Monday Feb.4 we're expected to attend a 24/7 10week course 200 miles away, or DIVORCE and she does it alone. She's due to give birth again in 4 weeks. Now what? HELP
David M., London, England
It is interesting that the American social worker "Joy" who is physically in the USA and knows nothing about the facts behind the case could possibly write that "I can almost bet that domestic violence is what brought this family to the attention of "the system"".
Brian, New York, USA
If this accusation is is false,(which it looks like), then is it likes targets being met for adoption?. I thought that retrospective and hearsay judgements are not part of british law. It seems like myself and 99% of the population are wrong. There is currently a rally being held outside SHEFFIELD LAW COURTS by parents who are in the same position.There is too much secracy surrounding family cases an nobody is able to question the judgements.
IS BRITISH LAW THE BEST ON THE PLANET
tony bear, rotherham, south yorkshire
TONY BEAR, rotherham, south yorkshire
Are you kidding me? I may be an American social worker but human behavior is human behavior and I can almost bet that domestic violence is what brought this family to the attention of "the system". in the first place Once you're a mother, your priority is your child. If professionals suggest you get a way from someone with an abusive personality while the domestic violence issues are resolved in order to protect your infant, you do it. You can still love your husband, and hopefully he would love you enough to get well. If not, at least you and your baby are safe.
Joy, Somewhere, US
please,please do something,anything to stop this gross injustice from continuing. it is absolutely inconceivable how the ,so called,justice service can justify removing children from parents who have not the insight as to emotional needs when that,in itself,is such a vague issue,it would seem that no matter what social services would deem as emotional abuse, they are vague to say the least.. the issue is also compounded by these ,so called, expert psychologists (paula wynter) being one of them. i am talking<by the way>from personal experience.if any one wishes to find out more,i will be,only too happy to explain,
mary docherty, dartford, kent