Mary Ann Sieghart
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Love isn’t quite all you need in life. But it’s a whole lot better than hate. And if that ideal continues to pervade British society, then we should be profoundly grateful to the Summer of Love which took place 40 years ago in 1967.
According to a YouGov poll for Readers Digest, we are all hippies now. And it’s not just the maxi dresses flooding out of Topshop or the instant sell-out of Glastonbury tickets. The values of peace, love, greenery, independence of mind and sexual freedom are no longer alternative but mainstream.
Three quarters of us now agree with sex before marriage, 82 per cent want to save the planet and 48 per cent believe in questioning authority. Roughly the same proportion think there are too many rules in society and a similar percentage – the same people, perhaps? – enjoy walking around barefoot.
You may think that some hippy values have been taken too far. Perhaps a little more deference would be desirable. But you have to remember the world from which the hippies burst: the stultified, uptight, rigidly hierarchical society of the 1950s and early 1960s, in which wives were expected to give up their jobs and wear pinnies. The hippies’ rejection of 1950s values was a great hurricane of fresh air blowing into a stale room whose windows had been painted shut for decades.
People then felt trapped by social convention. Women in particular had very little power over their lives. It was the hippies’ insight that everyone should be allowed to break out and be themselves, not be forced into a persona that had been ordained by others – real freedom of expression, in other words.
The hippies were also green long before their time. Many of them tried to live a life of self-sufficiency, growing their own food, generating energy and building homes. Now 47 per cent of Britons say they would consider trying to emulate them.
Of course, there was a huge naivety about the movement. “Make love, not war” might sound cool, but it wouldn’t have impressed Adolf Hitler. A synchronised sexfest would hardly have won us the Battle of Britain. Still, nearly half of Britons say they agree with the slogan and 35 per cent think there is never any excuse for war. What would they have done when the Nazis invaded? Put flowers in their hair?
But if in general you prefer gentleness to violence, if you think nature should be tended not destroyed, if you believe optimism, however misguided, beats hard-faced cynicism, then you are probably, like me, an old hippy at heart.
And the great news is that much of the rest of the country is too. We, as a nation, have become kinder, more open and more broad-minded in the past 40 years. We should light an incense stick for the hippies of 1967.
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It's interesting that there was no mention of this. In 1967 I was drafted into the army. I spent the summer of love trying to stay alive in Vietnam and in the process killing many VC. No summer of love for me....man. Peace.
Nicolas, S. Orange,
Those who attribute the 60s idealism with nihilism, miss the point. You were the very people that brought the 60s to that end. Many of us weren't drugging out. Many of us went on to live full and happy lives.
Freedom meaning having the liberty to choose. Sometimes people make bad choices. I'd still rather have freedom than a stifling world in which others make my choices for me; such as the 50's.. So many people seem to want to rush back to that time and place where choices were much more constricted, but it's too late. The door has already been opened long ago.
Time to choose wisely.
Alex, Woodbridge, VA
Perhaps Mary Anne might consider the fact that many of those who embraced the Hippie ideals of the late 60s/70s seem to have forgotten them and are the people who are in positions of power now...
That era had its problems too, but there was a feeling of hope, freedom and gentleness which has been replaced by fear, control and increased violence. Yes people are more aware of the environment etc, but it is through fear and control that they are being made aware. Why has it come to this stage? I am for awareness, but it just seems to me that everything is driven by the worship of Mammon, even the ethical clothing lines, organic food - the poorest cannot afford to eat organic although they can buy ethically through charity shop clothing- it is the reserve of the better off and the fashionista.
K. C., Crieff, Perthshire
lady your delusional.
mike, chicago, il
There's just that wee problem of what to do with people like Hitler, isn't there? The love-peace-all-is-wonderful attitude may be fun for a while, and may look comfortable, but just like the '60s, it doesn't last. And the most wretched people I know are those who tried to carry those attitudes with them.
Mary McLemore, Pike Road, Alabama, USA
It's one thing to say that you believe in questionning authority or wanting to save the world and an entirely different one to actually do it. The statistics don't surprise me, with today's awareness of global warming, famine, carbon footprints etc. who would ever freely admit "No, I do not want to save the world"? The 18% who have openly specified "No" should be applauded for their honesty.
SM, Nottingham,
Sorry, I really liked the 50's better except that minorities didn't have it fair. But if we could go forward to the rest of the values of the 50's, I would be very happy.
Mary Contrary, Salem, USA
My particular favourite aspect of the end of 1950s values is that I no longer have to eat solely at predefined mealtimes, at a table, with the family, using a knife and fork. I am now able to graze from the fridge all day whilst watching Trisha.
I'm so liberated.
Eugene Fickles, Bury, UK
Every day violent incidents of one sort or another are reported in the news. Graphic violence is routinely portrayed in films and tv dramas, even The Bill and other pre-watershed soaps. Even if not resorting to physical violence, people - especially young and middle-aged men - hurl abuse at those who happen to upset them, on the roads for example. Yet we're said to have become a kinder nation? What nonsense.
And, except on a sandy beach washed clean by the tide, what on earth's the attraction of leaving your shoes off, with the risk of cutting your feet or stepping in some kind of mess?
Barry, Wallington,
I was unaware that love was a concept of the 1960's. I thought it was about 2000 years old. Silly me, not knowing my history.
Juli, Chicago, IL , USA
Mary Ann how right you are. In the early fifties the nails that stuck out were really hammered down - I know I was there a timid non-conformist confronted by repressive authoritarian bullies. Beware! They are still with us, human nature being what it is. Peace! Yours ENTJ-fully.
Derek, Lewes, UK
Having grown up in the fifties and turning "hippie" in the late sixties I have a good perspective of both eras. The hippie movement was the worst thing to ever happen to America and the west. Going from the uptight decency of the 1950's to the drug ravaged and morally rudderless 1960's was a trip down the road to nihilism. Look around you now and what do you see? Kids living in one parent households growing up with little or no moral guidance.....no incentives to excel at anything....parents that continue to propagate the low moral boundaries and excesses of the 60's culture. A society in rapid decline because we don't believe in those things anymore that bind societies together. We're multy-culty and politically correct and so afraid of being judgemental. Don't get me wrong...the 50's wern't perfect but they were a universe better than the 60's. The only real positives I can state about the 1960's is that the music was good. The 50's wern't bad either for music but the 60's...GROOVY!
Harry L., Pikesville, Maryland, USA
Some people never seem to grow up. being stuck in the drug, drink and political intoxications of their youth. That is an unwelcome affliction for the responsible members of society to bear, and leaves future generations to pick up the bills for the self-indulgent recklessness of the 'forever young'. People looking back to this time will marvel at the hubris at those who have wrecked so much whilst under the delusion that they are creating a better world (in their own image of course).
Bernard, Norwich, UK
Mary Ann, stick to politics or whatever you normally write about. This is a non-article. We are not "old hippies" here in the western US, however you're welcome to come and visit us in the land of the real man. We like little Brit gals.
Kirk, Spokane, WA, USA
No. They simply swapped one kind of stultifying conformity for another. The great Frank Zappa realised this 40 years ago and correctly predicted how the hippy movement would pave the way for the corporate guys to sell us a whole bunch of useless stuff we think we need in order to get laid.
Ben, London,
Society has indeed become more liberal, in the sense of more tolerant of behaviour that would have been unacceptable previously, but I don't see a lot of evidence of an increase in peace and love.
Andy, Perth,
Sounds great! But you have to take the rough with the smooth. Give me free love and individual freedom any day. But we do need proper border controls (for the sake of the environment in this country as much as anything else), we do need discipline in schools and we do need to be hard nosed about tax and benefits. No one ideal or movement has all the answers.
Richard, Worcester, England
Come now. I don't believe that 82% of the population want to save the planet. I can believe that they want the planet to be saved by somebody else, but that's an entirely different thing.
It is of course nice when people keep telling you that being self-indulgent puts you on the side of the angels. Just look for example at how the French have come to believe that the institutional discrimination of subsidies is really "social justice" rather than the exact opposite.
What would have been newsworthy would have been a survey which revealed that people had turned their backs on such a pleasant approach to life. But that's not going to happen....
Ian Kemmish, Biggleswade, UK
Free love was just men's way of getting what they wanted. But apart from that, I doubt any of today's fashion conscious folk are actually hippies. Being hippy is more than promsicuous sex and a down-dressed fashion sense. It is, as is pointed out above, about questioning authority, but that incldues the media and business as well as the Steta.
Being a consumer, a rampant consumer of market goods, does not a hippy make. The hippy movement, if it can be called as such, was a forerunner of the punk movement. Times and people change, but the message is timeless.
Not many of the people that visit our high streets today, that grumble about paying for eco-friendly sytems of waste disposal, that value that office job more than time with family, or the car it has to be said, are hippies.
Fashion may have torn the heart out of so-called ethnic clothing (I still buy made in Nepal and India), but it has not been able to replicate the ideologies. And non-violence now, is a matter for religion.
Jennifer Hynes, Plymouth, England
In other words we now live in never-never land.
eddie reader, birmingham, uk
"Three quarters of us now agree with sex before marriage... 48 per cent believe in questioning authority."
That's quite sad, actually.
BH, Nottingham,
A very colourful , upbeat and nonconventional write-up.I'm born a "60 boomer" and was fascinated during my prime teens by the culture and life styles of "flower children". They lived a bohemian style of life, with a iconoclastic, rebellious attitude towards societal norms, conventions and moral strictures. Hippie culture or perhaps counter culture brought with it, a youth movement of beatniks, they were anti-nukes, opposing war and nuclear arms race. They personified a genteel, flavoured ideology of love, peace and freedom. Such culture brought about world wide fusion of rock, pop, country music , R&B with living in communes.However the flip side of their way of life, brought about incessant use of psychedelic drugs, marijuana, liberated sex , doping and a sense of hereticism.Yet, somewhere in our heart, we all love to enjoy the freedom ,lead a bohemian life style, and are inborn "hippies" or products of flower children.Our love for nature and greenery, symbolises this trait.
Sanjeev Dheer, New Delhi, India