Melanie Reid
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There is a wonderful scene in the film Juno when the teenage heroine ponders how to tell her parents that she is pregnant. “Omigod!” screeches her best friend. “If you tell them that, then they'll know you've been sexually active. They'll go crazeee!” The irony should not be lost on today's parents, convinced that their offspring are far too innocent to have ventured near “sexual activity”.
Poor, naive parents, clinging to the euphemism as if to a liferaft in a stormy sea. But irresponsible too. Parents in denial of the hypersexualisation of adolescence may protect their own sensibilities, but they inflict harm on the teenagers themselves, who need as much information and medical protection as it is possible to give.
How sad it is - but how grimly predictable - to learn that one in three parents may refuse to allow their teenage daughters the new vaccine against the human papilloma virus (HPV), an extremely common sexually transmitted disease. The injection is to be offered to 12 and 13-year-olds from September and will prevent 70 per cent of cervical cancer, which kills about 1,000 women every year.
However, in pilot studies, parents refused the injection because: (a) they were unsure about the long-term safety of it (36 per cent); (b) their children were too young (10 per cent); and (c) that it could encourage promiscuity (3 per cent). To which we can be cynical, and assume that only 3 per cent of objectors were being remotely honest.
Of course, the anti-science brigade still lurks, post-MMR debacle. Indeed we can only be grateful that such flat-earthers were not having babies when the smallpox and polio vaccines were developed.
And it is true there exist those peculiar cotton-woollers who will believe, even when their children are 22, not 12, that they are too young to be vaccinated.
But these are mere excuses for the real reason to reject this life-saving development - which is people's irrational fear of adolescent sexuality; and the poverty of their relationships with their teenagers. As personified by the mothers I heard on the radio, claiming: “Once they get the jab, they will get sexually active.” These parents think that, by ignoring sex, it will go away, and therefore they refuse to grant young people the right to informed choice.
So let us set aside superstition and neurosis and be very clear about one thing: it amounts to parental neglect to deny young women this vaccine. This is not about parents' right to personal beliefs, but about children's right to long-term health protection. The injection should be as universal as the polio or the BCG injection. And until it can be given in primary school, adolescent girls should be educated in safe sex and empowered to sign their own consent forms.
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Clearly Ms Reid had already decided how parents were going to react to this vaccine before she saw any statistics. As they differed from her preconceptions, the only conclusion is that the parents were lying. Is it any wonder why journalists are less trusted than politicians?
David Burke, Manchester, UK
Yes of course in an ideal world under-sixteens wouldn't be having sex, but who really thinks that those who make a mistake (or are raped - awful, but it does happen) deserve to be punished with cancer? Anyway there is no reason not to promote abstinence or condoms as well, it's not either-or.
Sarah, London, UK
I will certainly be vaccinating my daughters against this killer disease. I view the reasoning behind it the same as protecting against rubella. Bring out this life saving vaccine with a big PLEASE.
Mel, Northern England,
Make it manditory. Mass programs of vaccinations to children are a win win for all. The child reduces the chance of contracting a deadly virus and the community benefits from not having the loss of a future tax payer. The Surgeon General of Health should be making the decision.
Jim Wills, Brisbane, Australia
Moreover, while the vaccine may only "protects against a few strains" it does protect against strains 16 & 18 which cause 70% of cervical cancers & strains 6 & 11 which cause 90% of condylomata acuminata . Sure, promote abstinence, but maybe parents should promote their own education as to reality
annie, Twin Cities, USA
"The UK rollout will be the first large scale trial" UH. . .not really, we have had this vaccine in the States since 2006 & many individual states have bills pending to make the CANCER VACCINE mandatory (with a parent opt-out) for middle school girls age 12.
annie, Twin Cities, USA
I'm in favour of preventing HPV and possible cervical cancer by promoting the use of the vaccine. However, I think that we (society) have become complacent towards teenage sex. Correct me if I'm wrong, doesn't the law protect CHILDREN under 16? Shouldn't we be educating them to wait?
K Jones, Plymouth, Devon
Condoms actually don't offer protection against HPV, so even if a young woman is practicing responsible, safe sex, she may still be at risk. Therefore offering the vaccine whilst also providing education and advice about condom use is essential.
Lucie, London, UK
Strangely Melanie Reid neglects to mention that the vaccine will only protect against a few strains of the virus or that girls will still need regular smear tests to avoid contracting cervical cancer. No mention of side effects either. Looks like the UK rollout will be the first large scale trial.
Elaine Shaw, wolverhampton, UK
Parents should maintain the right to protect their daughters, from a vaccine with unknown side affects but also from the undesirable affects of sexual activity too young. We should be teaching children to save sex for a secure and loving realtionship in later life.
Sarah, Guildford,
The vaccine won't encourage girls to have sex... but it may make them think unprotected sex is ok. It won't protect against HIV or any of the other nasty diseases out there. Or pregancy for that matter.
Shouldn't we be pushing the argument for condoms?
Rose, scotland,
As so many of us were youngsters in the 60s, I think many mothers must have short memories! When I
was a young lad of 10, I remember my Victorian grandmother, tut tutting, as I examined the family bible complete with births,marriages and deaths recorded from the 1820s. And questioning the maths.
David Vinter, Louth, Lincs., UK.
Oh what a clever article! And to refer to flat-earthers as if there were some kind of connection...
The simple fact remains that many can recall the thalidamide wonder drug in its early days. And the outcome.
It obviously makes parents suspicious in an age where drugs trials are a joke.
Mike Poulsen, Reading, Berkshire
This issue has nothing to do with morality and everything to do with health. Unless you are going to advocate that every young woman should remain celibate for life, there is immense value to this vaccine. The only 'message' the vaccine gives is that parents care about their children's wellbeing
Sophie, Liverpool,
The vaccine should be allowed to girls, but there better have been
lots research and safety checks on the HPV vaccine! I do not agree with forcing the children's parents to allow the vaccine by force. In that case I would like to see very high ranking official's children having the vaccine too.
Roberto, Toronto, Canada
All well and good but don't forget good old fashioned morality based advice !!!!!
Ian Payne, WALSALL,
BCG isn't universal any more, my son's school didn't offer it and he was shocked he found out I had it when I was his age (I was shocked he didn't).
Also (I may be wrong) but havn't we been vaccinating teenage girls against German measles for years to protect their as yet un-thought of children?
Mike Robinson, Plymouth, UK
this information is a very good awakening to parents and even young adults.
bea, los baños, philippines
Guilty of neglect ,perhaps so,but to quote Melanie from a previous article "idealised,romantasised,unrealistic maternal standards".
This written to defend the McCanns where the word neglect did not make appearance.As a" cotton wooller "who would vaccinate and protect while an infant-consistency !!
robert everitt, wolverhampton,
It's repressive, selfish and unloving to pretend your daughter isn't ever going to grow up and to encourage the idea, however indirectly or subtly, that a woman having sex somehow deserves to come to harm. The rubella shot is to protect an unborn baby and nobody objects to 10-year-olds having it.
Rachel, London,