Jenni Russell
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There are two fiercely depressing elements to the story of Linda Buchanan, the woman pushed onto railway tracks last week in apparent retaliation for asking two youths to stop smoking in a no-smoking zone.
The first is the savagery of the youths’ reaction. Buchanan could have been electrocuted and is lucky to have survived. The second is the fact that hundreds of thousands of people will have reacted to that news by saying to themselves, “That’s it - no matter what I see going on around me, I’ll never dare speak out in public again.”
Buchanan’s case will have frightened people because she was an unusual victim in an unusual time and place. She wasn’t assaulted by drunks late at night, alone in a dark street. She was an unthreatening middle-aged woman, standing on a crowded commuter platform, catching a train to work in the morning. She must have felt safe.
It’s that conjunction of normality and sudden, unpredictable violence that is so unnerving and leaves people resolved to ignore whatever happens around them.
It’s an understandable reaction but it’s the wrong one. It’s precisely the mass retreat of adults from upholding public standards in public spaces, largely in the face of intimidation by the young, that has made the outside world such a scary place to be. Buchanan stood out because she was a lone voice. Had she been supported by a dozen people agreeing with her, or had a dozen people been likely to act together to catch the attackers, the chances of any assault would have been drastically reduced.
That kind of group confidence has largely disappeared in Britain. Instead there’s a general uncertainty about whether it’s legitimate to uphold civilised behaviour and a fear of the consequences if we speak or act. A substantial section of us now think that inconsiderate, disruptive or threatening behaviour isn’t the business of anyone but the police.
Nothing illustrates that more clearly than the reactions of readers on a local newspaper blog to Buchanan’s fate. Many, although sorry for what had happened, agreed that it was far too dangerous to challenge anyone, ever. Some condemned her for interfering. One man wrote: “What made her station master? She should have kept her gob shut, her opinions to herself, and reported them. Unless you are the law don’t try and uphold the law, hardly rocket science now, is it.” An indignant station master responded by saying he wouldn’t have done anything in the same situation - it wasn’t his responsibility: “It ain’t my job to confront lawbreakers of any description. Why should I put myself in a position of danger?”
The trouble with this attitude is that it’s so shortsighted. Individuals think they’re safer for not interfering, but if nobody will come to anyone else’s aid, being in public makes us both more anxious and far less safe, because we know that if we become an unlucky victim, we’ll be on our own.
As for the idea that every bit of bad behaviour should be referred to the police: it would be both insane and impractical. One in 10 of us would have to be employed as policemen and another one in 10 would have to run the courts. Communities don’t work like that. They need adults to set boundaries and to maintain them.
The interesting question is why adults feel so cowed and uncertain. It wasn’t the case a generation ago. Anyone over 45 will recognise that they grew up in a world where a sense of adult authority was taken for granted. It was necessary because then, as now, the majority of crime and aggressive behaviour was carried out by the young, and particularly by young men. The adult role was to socialise the next generation.
In my childhood any random adult could and did stop teenagers from being beaten up or scold us for storming onto a bus. A friend who was one of a group of wild teenagers on a council estate in the 1970s says their attempts at shoplifting, joyriding or fighting were constrained by grown-ups who shouted at them, frogmarched them out of trouble or reported them to their parents. Most of the troublemakers didn’t end up with criminal records because they were dealt with informally. The social pressure on them encouraged them to grow out of it.
That has all changed. Over the past couple of decades there has been a revolution in the way adults and children relate to one another. Well-intentioned initiatives, designed to protect children from being physically chastised at school or at home, or from being assaulted by paedophiles, have had the unintended consequence of snapping the wider social bonds between the generations.
Children are taught to fear everyone they don’t know and told that no stranger can touch them. Adults, fearful of being accused of paedophilia, avert their eyes when toddlers smile at them and dare not pick up a child if it falls from a swing. There is no general building of warmth or trust. Later, grown men are frightened to reprimand young girls, or to lay a hand on an aggressive boy, for fear of being accused of assault.
Children grow up in a cold vacuum of apparent mutual indifference, where they learn to ignore and be ignored by people around them. They find that they get no help from adults when they are scared or mugged, but nor are they stopped when they intimidate anyone else. They learn that they can feel powerful in public because everyone else is too scared to challenge them. It’s not surprising that a minority of such children grow up indifferent to others’ feelings and are outraged, sometimes to the point of violence, when asked to consider them. That’s the result of leaving them to act like Lords of the Flies.
There’s only one answer to this situation and that is for adults to reclaim their role. It needs courage from individuals but it requires commitment by governments, too. The legislative and social framework that deters people from engaging with children from their earliest years, from touching them or intervening in assaults, has to change.
The government are belatedly recognising the problem. Last month Jack Straw oversaw a law that gives new protection to those who act instinctively to protect themselves or others. Next they need to stop reinforcing the idea that every stranger is a danger and that adults and children shouldn’t interact. It’s no way to build a safer society.
Unless we want this spiral of anxiety and violence to continue, we have to recognise our mutual dependence and stop seeing one another as a threat.
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We are now seeing the results of 3 decades of PC indoctrination. Nothing more, nothing less. Thank you Labour? - I wish all the best to Linda Buchanan.
Peter, Brussels,
The bottom line is that you must weigh up the risk of sticking your neck out. Sure there are people who flout the rules about smoking - but its not worth commenting on. Id be lucky if our station master came out for serious assault, let alone something as a pointess as someone lighting up..
Lisa, London, UK
I'm amazed at the "station master's" response. Railway staff are extremely good as asking people not to smoke. If I see someone smoking, my first action is to report it. I would back up any member of the public or staff who confronted anti-social behaviour. Don't let the thugs and yobs win!
Jonathan, Didcot, UK
Excellent article and very interesting comments. As long as we all remain involved there is hope for a better future!
Ray Massart, Hombeek, Belgium
You reap what you sow...most of these supposed 'well intentioned' inititives were more about middle-aged feminists ensuring that their husbands don't ever get tempted by a nubile 17 year old girl. Or, as Rod Liddle has pointed out, masking our total and selfish lack of real concern for young people.
Bruno, London,
Confronting youths, or indeed anyone, involved in anti-social/illegal activity is fraught with danger- and to suggest the opposite is naive and, frankly, stupid. I am a fit man and have done this from time to time but I am aware that these actions are risky. You may be injured, unsupported or sued!
Keith, Newcastle, UK
The solution is simple, repeal a few laws! Start with the childrens act. Untie the hands of adults!
Daniel Heslop, Bournemouth, UK
MS says: 'They were only smoking, not robbing a bank'.
Not the point. Smoking is illegal in station premises.
Further, smoking is offensive to many people. It's inconsiderate of others.
'All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing'.
Margaret Stoll, Rochford, Essex, England
I would agree 100% with the article if I were sitting in an office typing it but in real life ??? Why would anybody risk their own life to stop people smoking? The risk is way too great until the govt, the police and the so called 'human rights' issues are applied with a good dose of common sense
carol, Malvern, Worcs
Wakey wakey world this is the cold reality we face daily! You have to use your loaf to some degree if these two yobs were outside smoking surely it would have been simpler to move away, different I supose if they were in a waiting room or carrage.These people have no regard for the law!
Dave Farmer, Broxbourne, England
What is happening over there.You seem to be turning into a pretty gutless lot. I have been on the end of some stiff judgements in my time,and am now giveing it out. The Station Master concerned in this tragic matter should be told in no uncertain terms that his job is to protect the public.
Ian Ballantyne -Russell , Sydney, Australia
I made a 999 call to the police in Liverpool on a Saturday afternoon to report two teenagers on motorbikes who had a private race in a busy public park. It took the police about 30mins to send a single car, and the criminals escaped, of course. The key to public safety is an effective police force.
Peter, Liverpool, UK
Spot on D Cage! As a white middle class male, quite capable of taking care of myself , the anti-social conduct of the teen/20something hoodies doesn't stop me intervening. It is knowing that the laws favour leniency and that police hands are tied by ineffective apologist MPs & I'll have the record.
Phil , London,
David Cage is right, it is not just the fear of the youth, it is the fear that the police and criminal justice system will not back you up when the youth exact their revenge for your interference. Nowadays unless an attack ends in murder, the instigator is more likely than not to receive a suspended sentence. Or worst still, the police will treat you as the problem while the youth laugh at the cowardice and incompetence of the authorities and at your stupidity for believing that there is still such a thing as law and order.
Paul, MERSEYSIDE, UK
I'm uncertain whether all the blame should accrue to the two young people.
The heavy hand of society and government has long been increasing it its emnity for anything individualistic.
Legal yesterday, illegal today.
Overcrowded, over-regulated society creates anger.
Treat the cause not the effect.
Marion, London, UK
It is not the fear of the youths as such that would stop me it is the fear that the police will dutifully follow up any complaint and the state will fund the prosecution but I would be faced with the defence bill that would destroy me financially.
David Cage, Highworth, Wilts
Children need discipline not rights and until we understand that thuggery and mayhem will ensue.
Simon Marshland, Bath, UK
Some of the more low brow media fuel these fears. Middle class Britain is told by the media day in day out to fear 'hoodies', apparently kids are running round stabbing each other etc. The wold hasn't changed that much, our failing is believing everything we read in the papers
J Brown, London,
A good smack when younger - in junior school, would have sorted this out - but oh no, you PC people knew best and all the studies said it didn't work. Well it does work. No trouble like this in the mining villages - any adult sorted the youngsters out - and the child molester was soon dealt with.
Henry GB, Brampton, Cumbria
Good parenting skills are sadly lacking. Adults inconvenienced by children cannot cope. Our laws pander to enablers and support a culture of intimidation, entitlement. Respect for rules and laws are learned earlier, not later. Immature adults are the consequence. Haven't we all had enough?
Deb, Northants,
While the reaction of the two youths is completely unacceptable and deserves punishment, the fact is they were smoking not robbing a bank. In the "good old days" that Ms Russell harps back to this was a perfectly legal activity. Anyway the media said the same things then as they do now about youth.
MS, London,
Three boys broke into my house. I chased them in my car, made them stop, give me back my belongings and realise how much damage they'd caused me by breaking in. Reckless? Yes. Satisfying? Yes. A win-win for us all? Yes. I know it's not always possible but we can't let kids raise themselves.
Maggie, Melbourne, Australia
Trouble-making youngsters are very aware of their own 'rights' and exploit the situation. Police, teachers, the public - everyone - has to be extremely careful dealing with them in case one of their 'rights' is infringed. Until that changes, some youngsters will continue to behave like this.
Donna Walker, Effingham, England
Surely the law already does allow for self-defence? Seems like Staraw is trying to fix a problem caused by statute - and not by (common) law - in the first place. Typicla of govt: "fixing" thigns it'sdumb-handedness caused.
Bertie, London,
I am so astonished by the anger of today's young people - Violence seems to be the approach to any confrontation questioning their behavior - This has to stop - We all need to take a stand against this warped sense of free will to do anything regardless of whether it is acceptable in today's society
WTaylor, London, UK
Great! And so true not only in Britain, but all over Europe. Let´s hope both individuals and society as well as governments will wake-up while there is still time.
All the best to Linda Buchanan and every other courageous human being.
Marie, Linz,
I agree 100%. Britain has allowed itself to be dictated to by PC control freaks and has lost the plot. Children need to be sent to Sunday School to learn the Ten >Commandments and how to love fellow man. Parents need to be allowed to legally chastise their children again, even in public. So sad.
B J Deller, Marbella, Spain
Disappointing no males helped at the railway. There are some, who have, and will intervene in certain situations. We are non-assuming, often office-workers. The recently revised law provides support to sometimes ridiculed 'good Samaritans'.
Good people must pull together, or individuals will suffer.
br, here, UK
There needs to be a complete review of our legal system . Lawyers seem to have lost sight of the fact that they are there to ensure a client is treated fairly and now do anything they can to get clients 'off the hook' . Bring back corporal punishment !
Mike, Bradford, England
"A substantial section of us now think that inconsiderate, disruptive or threatening behaviour isnt the business of anyone but the police."
Yes.The police. The courts. Oh and the Govt.
rr, harrow,