Kathy Galloway: Credo
The quintessential Bond girl. Diamonds are Forever, free with The Times today
The current furore about religion and homosexuality has caused something of a dilemma for my children and their friends, who are all in their twenties. So much of what the Church has said about homosexuality is, for them, not so much right or wrong, as simply “nonsense”. They operate within a different worldview. Like many, and perhaps the majority of their peers, they do not believe that either homosexual orientation or practice is sinful or “evil” per se, any more than they believe that about heterosexuals. They do not think it unnatural or disordered that there is a minority of the human population which is attracted to its own gender. They simply accept that as a fact of life. They are shocked that gays and lesbians have continually to make a case for themselves as sexually expressive and relational human beings. For them, this is essentially a justice issue.
Nor do they start from a laissez-faire or ethically disinterested perspective. They have clear positive values about the wrong of cruelty, violence, faithlessness, abuse of power, mercilessness, pride. They have considerable respect for marriage, and a realistic understanding of its challenges, which means that it is something they will never enter into lightly.
But living as they do in a pluralist society they are exposed to a far greater degree of diversity of culture, lifestyle, beliefs, attitudes, than ever before. They know their (and my) gay and lesbian friends, they know their kindness, their abilities, the quality of their parenting, and they find it enriching, not evil. For them, discrimination against people on the ground of their sexual orientation has the same character as racial discrimination – that is, it is not only immoral but criminal.
How then shall they relate to a Church that considers homosexual practice, regardless of its moral and relational quality, as a sin? To become a member of that Church, will they have to name as a sin that which they have hitherto seen as an expression of justice? To name homosexuality as evil (and for all the slipping around between orientation and practice, they don’t see the Church even practising what it preaches here) is, for them, corrupt, and trivialises the real nature of evil. One of the great joys for us this year in the family of the Iona Community has been the opportunity to share in the celebrations of those of our members who have entered into civil partnerships. About 10 per cent of our membership and staff are gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgendered. They are fully and openly part of our common life, part of our body. When one member of the body suffers, all the others suffer, too. When one member is honoured, all the others rejoice together. They are part of our common prayer, and we pray equally for their chosen partners and respect their choices.
I could not begin to describe how much these members have enriched the life of our community; in our worship, our action for justice and peace, in pastoral support and theological reflection. They have deepened our spirituality, enhanced and supported our families and modelled forgiveness and reconciliation. Their sexuality is not the only, or even the most, interesting thing about them.
Jesus said: “By their fruits you shall know them.” And because we have known them, we have reaped a rich harvest. Many of them, whether single or with partners, have experienced ignorance, misunderstanding and unremitting hostility in their Churches.
As Christians, the world judges us not by our discussions and doctrinal statements, but by our greatest claim; that we love God and love one another. By that standard, our gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered members and staff have been a witness to us, and I am glad that they find a safe home within the Iona Community.
Enjoy screenings of all the classic films you love, plus take advantage of two-for-one tickets
Have you ever dreamed of owning your own racehorse or a beautiful painting?
Enjoy comfort, safety, space and great design. Plus enter our great competition
We explore leisure activities that are safe and suitable for all of the family
Times Online's new TV show helps you make the right decisions for your pet
Are you California dreaming? Explore the wonders of the Golden State. Also enter our fantastic competition
Do you have what it takes to be a Times photographer?
Your brain is capable of more than you might think...
Need help with your property? We have an entire how to guide - buying, selling, letting, moving, to help you
View the 50 greenest companies in an interactive, searchable table
Enjoy some wonderful inspiring wildlife moments
An interactive preview of the brand new For Your Eyes Only exhibition

Love Sudoku? Play our brand new interactive game: with added functionality and daily prizes

Are you irritable when you return from work? Drained of emotion? You could be suffering from boreout
Prepare for some shock and awe, petrol lovers. Despite the greens trying to wipe it out, the car is about to offer us the most exciting year ever
We've trawled the brochures and websites to find this summer’s best holidays for every taste and budget


Search The Times Births, Deaths & Marriage announcements
2006/56
£37,995
South West England
1998/R
£8,250
Inside M25
2006/06
£40,995
South East England
Great car insurance deals online
Six Figure Package
Royal Mail
London
Management Roles
Barclaycard
Northampton
£
c£75,000 + executive benefits
Morgan Keating
London and South
Unpaid with travel expenses
Network Rail
Affordable Key Worker quality 1 bed apartments through part buy, part rent with Dominion Housing Group
Globrix the Property search engine
Visit Times Online Property for homes for sale or rent
Mortgages, bank accounts & money transfers to help you buy abroad
£
Dinarobin Hotel Golf & Spa 7 nights
From £1830 per person – saving £530.
Walking & multi-activity holidays in Cauterets. Stylish self-catering apartments.
From 350€ for 7 nights.
Visit the Entertainment Capital of the World!
£POA
Great travel insurance deals online
Contact our advertising team for advertising and sponsorship in Times Online, The Times and The Sunday Times. Search globrix.com to buy or rent UK property.
© Copyright 2008 Times Newspapers Ltd.
This service is provided on Times Newspapers' standard Terms and Conditions. Please read our Privacy Policy.To inquire about a licence to reproduce material from Times Online, The Times or The Sunday Times, click here.This website is published by a member of the News International Group. News International Limited, 1 Virginia St, London E98 1XY, is the holding company for the News International group and is registered in England No 81701. VAT number GB 243 8054 69.
The point of the article was that the majority of the next generation are grounded in reality. Flights of fancy such as the 'sin of homosexuality' further lowers the believability of Christianity.
Its about time the Enlightenment came to fruition. When religion is finally relegated to the realm of mythology where it belongs, mankind will have made a glorious achievement. It is heartening that fewer people bow to the tyranny of the priesthood these days.
beergoggles, Boston, USA
The point of the article was that the majority of the next generation are grounded in reality. Flights of fancy such as the 'sin of homosexuality' further lowers the believability of Christianity.
Its about time the Enlightenment came to fruition. When religion is finally relegated to the realm of mythology where it belongs, mankind will have made a glorious achievement. It is heartening that fewer people bow to the tyranny of the priesthood these days.
beergoggles, Boston, MA, USA
The article points out that the liberals have changed the point of view of the next generation, which was their agenda.
Rewriting of the scriptures is a handy tool for the next level of acceptance.
Christianity is not about "feeling good" about yourself or those around you. It is about honoring God in your life, personal and private, so that you have a relationship with Him through Christ
Michele, Houston, Texas
If you visit All Saints Wokingham Berkshire England you will find a liberal-minded church which is not empty
www.allsaintswokingham.org.uk
David Hodgson, Wokingham, UK
There are many different ways of 'rewriting Scripture', e.g., professing to find clear statements in it about situations it didn't have to face and doesn't have anything to say about. Those who subject the Bible to serious and prayerful reflection in the light of experience and deepening understanding are not rewriting Scripture but responding to the prompting of the Holy Spirit. And please don't quote Leviticus 18.22 at me, or I'll ask you whether you have ever eaten prohibited foods like lobster (Lev. 11.10-11).
Eamonn Rodgers, Glasgow, UK
Sometimes the ignorance and hostility displayed by my fellow Christians towards those involved in non-traditional sexual relationships both embarrasses and exasperates me. This article helps to restore my faith in the Christian community, we are not all rabid born again evangelicals ready to thump those we disapprove of with our much thumbed copies of the Bible.
Why are some elements of the Church so concerned about people's private lives? Consensual and healthy sexual relationships whether they are monogamous, in or out of marriage, heterosexual or homosexual, are not an important issue in a world full of conflict and abuse.
Jon, WSM, UK
The demise of the church of England is due to institutional homophobia? The CoE now has less members attending on a given week then the muslims who constitute a tiny minority (3% of the population, I think). What Christian church is growing the fastest in England, the evangelicals. Roman catholics now outnumber Anglicans Why? Because they offer salt and light, and have not sacrificed themselves to worldly values. What is a church that says, "Right is what you feel in your heart, have a nice day." Christianity was built on the blood of Christ and then the blood of the martyrs. Who is going to dedicate let alone sacrifice their life for trite, hackneyed phrases? Homophobia the problem with the CoE? Doesn't seem to be holding back the Catholics, evangelicals and muslims. "Logic. Don't they teach logic in schools these days."
Robert , pueblo, USA
Trouble is, most "inclusive" churches are empty ! What's the point of following a church that just teaches a religious version of current societal norms ? People realize that if you want to follow Christ it means sacrifices and change. It is not just a matter of loving yourself and loving God (whoever you perceive her to be).
Jesus said "If anyone loves me, he will obey my teaching". You might not agree with biblical/christian behavioural standards, with their prohibition on sex - even dreaming about it - in most circumstances. And you might think that people should feel free to act on their current sexual orientation (given that many people experience changes over their lifetime).
But no-one is legally obliging you to believe or behave like a Christian!
Zwingli, Stetten, Germany
God does not say we are to be hostile to these individuals. We are to love one another as we love ourselves. But, if you are a Christian, you should accept that Christ was no liar. He said He didn't come to change the law, but to fulfill it. The law wasn't written to make people feel good about themselves. It was written to show people their need for God. If we continually rewrite the law to say that this or that no longer applies, because our enlightenment is superior to God's inspired word, then ultimately we will have written out everything that denies any form of self-actualization. We won't need God or a Savior. With any revision, biblical or otherwise, it is good practice to think through the unintended consequences. Where does rewriting Scripture ultimately end? Christ must not be the Son of God. Therefore, He must have been a liar. If He was lying, then all the revisionists who want to say Christianity is only Love, not Law, are basing their truisms on lies. Careful!
Diana , Durango, CO