Ruth Gledhill, Religion Correspondent
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A senior Church of England vicar has been accused of being a “bully and a liar” and of spitting at one of his churchwardens, in a rare ecclesiastical court sitting in London.
The Rev Tom Ambrose, 60, vicar of St Mary and St Michael in Trumpington, near Cambridge, is accused of bringing his once “thriving parish” to breaking point. Church wardens resigned, volunteers left and Dr Ambrose ignored the parochial church council, the tribunal was told.
Dr Ambrose told members of the congregation who did not agree with him to leave, sent hate e-mails and made personal attacks on “opponents” during sermons, it was claimed.
Dr Ambrose was once regarded as one of the Church’s leading communications strategists. He also gained a reputation when, about ten years ago, he knocked down a cornered thief in Newmarket, standing over him until the police arrived.
The tribunal could cost Dr Ambrose his job. And, taking into account any subsequent appeals, it could cost the Church more than £500,000. It is being heard under the rarely used Incumbents (Vacation of Benefices) Measure of 1977.
Tribunals can be set up by a bishop if an initial inquiry shows that there are “reasonable grounds” to suspect that there has been a breakdown in pastoral relations. Justin Gau, representing the parish parochial church council, said: “This is a very sad case — it is in fact an old-fashioned divorce caused by irretrievable breakdown between a priest and his parish. Dr Ambrose is a square peg in a round hole. He has talent, he is intelligent and learned, but he is also a bully and a liar. He would lose his temper if he did not get his own way, and he was incapable of believing the beliefs of others if they did not fit his own. He brought a thriving parish to its knees.
“Churchwarden after churchwarden resigned, volunteers left, and his answer was always to attack. He told bold lies and ordered people to leave the parish if they did not agree with him. They lost all trust in him, and if there is no trust between the parish and the priest then the mission of the Church of England has failed.”
According to Dr Ambrose, who moved to Trumpington in 1999, the congregation turned on him when he tried to modernise the church, such as installing lavatories. When parishioners, including a warden, Marilyn Orson, complained in a letter to the bishop, Dr Ambrose went to her home. Mrs Orson told the hearing: “He called me a liar. I am not a liar and I was very distressed by this. We spent a very long time putting the letter together in a reasonable way because we thought it would spare everyone’s blushes.”
She said that she thought the matter could be sorted out by the archdeacon “over a pint” but Dr Ambrose claimed that he had never received a copy of the complaint letter.
Mrs Orson said: “I was actually really frightened of him. At one point he was towering over me and shouting at me and I actually thought he was going to grab my shoulders and shake me or hit me. I enjoyed his initial services and I really did try to engage with him but it was difficult.”
The tribunal, made up of two members of the clergy, a lawyer and two laymen, chaired by a circuit judge, is taking place over five days at St Mary le Bow Church near St Paul’s, London.
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I sat in on the Tribunal on Sunday and many of the claims made by this woman and the others were shown to be false. The truth appears to be that Tom Ambrose has the support of the majority of his congregation, but a few trouble makers have made life very difficult for him. From my perspective this is much more about a small number of people trying to bully a talented and resourceful priest who is trying to take the church in the right direction. Your story does not appear to reflect this balance
Rev'd Dr Mike Bossingham, Upwell, Norfolk
Since I have nothing to do with this parish, I will practice my freedom of speech! It seems that there are two things wrong here. One, people should have spoken up long before now. Maybe your life lesson is to learn to speak up before all hell breaks loose. It seems to have done so here. Two, there is no place and excuse for a bully of any age. Whether you are two or sixty two, something is very very wrong. Do any of you have any little or big bullies in your family? What are you doing about it? Get some help before they do more damage. By the way, if there are no bathrooms in the church, where do you all go, behind the azaleas? I want to read about a good fair solution here. I think Vicar Bully needs a new vocation. Does he have a family? Is he gay? Does he need some anger management sessions? Does he need to move to San Francisco? Cheers!
Miss May, Chattanooga, Tennessee, USA
What a shame the Church has to wash its dirty linen in public - and that allegations like this should be reported in such a one sided manner. Would it not be fairer to wait until this priest has had a chance to defend himself, before giving the impression that what is claimed is factual?
Trial by the media is an ugly spectacle!
David Cohen, London,