Ruth Gledhill, Religion Correspondent
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Women priests who might become bishops include London vicar Rose Hudson-Wilkin, Southwark's Christine Hardman, Dean of Leicester Vivienne Faull, Dean of Salisbury June Osborne, Westminster Abbey's Canon Jane Hedges and St Paul's Canon Lucy Winkett.
But high up the list of potential candidates among the 1,500-plus stipendiary women priests is the slim, auburn-haired Dr Miranda Threlfall-Holmes, a mother of two children in her mid-thirties.
Former atheist Dr Threlfall-Holmes, whose motion for a simple measure to consecrate women without even a code of practice for traditionalists was defeated by the General Synod, was at a girls' grammar school in 1992 when the General Synod voted to ordain women priests.
That debate, at Church House, Westminster in London, was equally dramatic in its own way as this week's on women bishops at the York summer meeting of the Synod. The two-thirds majority in all three houses was achieved by one vote, when a lay woman crossed the floor from the traditionalists' side to vote for women priests at the last minute.
Dr Threlfall-Holmes, who is a chaplain and fellow at Durham University, where she is researching the history of the doctrine of the Trinity, was in a maths lesson when the debate took place. "We insisted on having the radio on in our statistics lesson to hear the vote. A massive cheer went up when it went through. We were clear as women that it mattered."
She became a Christian at Cambridge University when, during a "messy situation", she was reduced to praying the atheist's prayer: "Dear God, if there is a God, please sort this out."
She said: "Suddenly God was there in the room in a way that is impossible to describe, but He was definitely there." Her response was to swear violently. But the whole difficulty she had been wrestling with "melted away" the following day.
Months later, sitting in an empty church pondering whether to accept a job offer, she prayed and heard a voice behind her say: "Be a vicar." She turned around and there was nobody there. "I fought against it for a good couple of years but in the end I could not do anything else," she said.
She assumed at that stage that women's ordination was no longer an issue. It was only on arriving at St John's theological college in Durham to begin her training that she realised how many clergy and laity remained opposed. That prompted her to join the lobby group Women and the Church.
She said that she was worried if traditionalists were upset by the vote but believed the Synod had done the right thing. "I think we made the right decision. Most people thought we made the right decision. I think we did it in a good way."
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There is a deity but 'it' has no special relationship with us humans. It is creation and we have only a small awareness of it. He or she who plays and accepts fully and never believes comes close to God.
brian, sheffield, england
Nathan - theism means deciding to believe stories about supernatural beings from dodgy sources. Rational?
Atheism just means refusing to believe such tales, especially in view of the (lack of) creditilty of those telling them. That's rational.
alan, germany,
Dave.
Actually everyone's born agnostic: a state of not knowing.
Today, atheism like theism is the acceptance of a particular truth claim, which must have coherent arguments for it.
I chose theism as it's full expression is reasonable n humane as opposed to atheism which leads to nihilism.
Nathan, Cambridge, UK
I feel women have the same rights as men when it comes to being sucked into a belief system.....both sexes can be equally gullible!
Paddy, Leicester,
Atheist's prayer? Never heard of it.
Remember - everyone is born atheist.
I think this lady is a liar - and always believed a god exists.
A real atheist would never pray, ever. Not even just in case.
dave, arlington,
It's a relief that "Believer realises there is no god" stories don't command any headlines or there'd be no room on the net for the important stuff like nip slips or other things as relevant as this story.
Deli, Leeds, UK
There is something "off" about an erstwhile "atheist" (not "agnostic") seeing the light/hearing the voice/feeling the presence of the Deity. It's an issue of intellectual and emotional stability - the word "flighty" comes to one's mind.
Gaz, Costa Mesa,
As a former Druid and now thrice born again christian i am pleased she has followed the voices in her head.
iain rae, Tunbridge Wells, U.K.
David:
<br/>In reading the Gospels, I find the Lord Jesus to be very impractical. Whatever his reasons for male only apostles, practicality, it seems to me, was not his guiding principle.
Ramon Rodriguez, Miami, USA
She sounds ridiculous.
Jemma Jones, Surrey, UK
What so many Christians forget is that Jesus himself chose a woman to deliver the news of his resurrection to his disciples. Not Peter or Paul, but Mary Magdalene was the bearer of this news. So as a believing Christian, I firmly believe Christ believes in women to lead the way.
clariece, Poway, USA
I wonder how many of her colleages would share Dr THrelfall-Holmes' notion of a male God.
clive, grahamstown, south africa
In all its discussions the synod seems to have forgotten whose church it is. It is not their church, it belongs to Christ. But as it no longer recognises the Bible as the inerrant Word of God it is lost. The bible talks of the church calling it the church of Laodiceans. Preach the Gospel alone
Ann, Limerick, Ireland
"Be a vicar." i.e. Not a Bishop.
Rusty, London, UK
"Her response was to swear violently" Violent swearing was her response to the presence of God in her room? The experience of God's grace is so incredibly joyful, uplifting and fulfilling to the human soul, that the thought of "swearing violently" is a really strange and disturbing reaction.
Romano, San Diego, USA
Jesus castigated the Pharisees for 'disregarding God's commands in order2follow their own teaching"Matthew15:6. Today Anglicans disregard the Holy Spirit's teaching w/regards to bishops being mature males, married to1wife w/obedient children:1st Timothy3:1-5-7. Jesus expects obedience: John14:23-4 !
carmine cicchiello, adelaide, australia
I find it so sad that there are still people that are against the ordination of women. It makes me particularly sad that members of the Anglican community feel this way as I am an Episcopalian. After all who was with Christ when he suffered on the cross? Who saw the risen Christ first?
Alice B., Houston, Texas, USA
From this article, Dr Threlfall-Holmes appears to be intelligent, thoughtful, committed, open-minded and realistic, with a deep personal faith which she is yet prepared to challenge and examine by academic study. I think she would make an excellent bishop.
Nicola, Bristol, UK
Those opposing women being bishops assert that Christ "deliberately appointed" men only to be his Apostles. This ignores the fact that He had no other choice. In the patriarchal society of the time, where women took a back seat, it was simply a practical, rather than a theological, move.
David Tym, Horsham, United Kingdom
Here is some words of WATCh (Women and the Church):
Many bibles, hymns and prayers continue to use he to mean he or she, brothers to mean brothers and sisters and mankind for humankind...Having women as bishops will to continue to raise the issue of language and challenge current usage
robroy, pueblo, usa