Rosemary Bennett, Social Affairs Correspondent
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Men are refusing to volunteer to work with children because they are frightened of being labelled a paedophile, according to a survey.
The check by the Criminal Records Bureau that everyone working with children must undergo was also found to be another major deterrent in getting men to volunteer.
The poll, conducted by the children’s charity NCH and the volunteer group Chance UK, reveals that many charities are struggling to recruit men, often to mentor boys who have no male role model in their lives. NCH says that only 20 per cent of its volunteers are male, forcing it to use women in roles where men are preferable.
The poll found that work commitments and a lack of time were the most common reason cited by men for not volunteering, but one in five said that they did not want to be checked by the Criminal Records Bureau, and 13 per cent said that they were scared of being branded paedophiles.
The two charities urged men to overcome their fears. “Many children, especially boys, are desperately in need of a male mentor, which is why we urgently need men to come forward despite any fears they may have about public perception,” said Clare Tickell, chief executive of NCH.
Jo Hobbs, of Chance UK, said: “Male volunteers are more difficult to recruit, yet positive male role models can make a huge difference to the lives of challenging children and young people.”
Alan Lion, who has been mentoring boys of primary school age on behalf of Chance UK in Sureey, said that it was one of the most worthwhile things he had done. A boy he mentored last year had never spent a day in a mainstream school and was told he never would, was frightened of heights and scared of water. Now the boy swims regularly and is excelling at school.
Although he has not faced suspicion he does take precautions. “You don’t see the child alone in private. You are always in a public place, sometimes even with his parent. I suppose I subconsciously look to check that other people are around if we are in the swimming pool changing rooms.
“I have found people take what I do at face value. At the end of the day, mentoring can make an enormous difference to the life of another human being, an that far outweighs any concerns I have about what people might think.”
Children’s charities are not the only organisations to suffer from the impact of child protection regulations. The Times reported in April that hobby clubs, which teach children to fly model aeroplanes or climb, are closing their doors to young people because they cannot get enough volunteers to undergo checks.
Hugh Thornberry, head of children’s services at NCH, said that although the Criminal Records Bureau checks were necessary, they were also more straightforward than people expected. “Men need to know CRB checks are a painless process unless you have something to hide and they are there to protect children.” he said.
“In terms of being branded a paedophile, unfortunately that is is one of the consequences of abusers, quite properly, being exposed in voluntary groups and church organisations. We have to work against that perception. It is also a problem that our social care work force is predominantly female.”
Volunteer week, which starts today, will involve many events designed to encourage more people to volunteer. Despite a government campaign the numbers of volunteers has remained static at about 18 per cent since 2002, according to the consultancy nfpSynergy.
The Government, however, claims that about half the population volunteers, although its definition is wide. Contacting the local authority, giving someone help if they ask for it and baby-sitting for a friend all count as volunteering.
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I went to college to prepare becoming a teacher, but as I realized the potential nightmare of being falsely accused, by perhaps, say an angry student, I abandoned all plans and went into fields more male-friendly--anywhere away from children. My background in volunteer work and camp counselor has given me insight into how scary the parents can be if they don't have things their way. All in all, with the threat of having one's life ruined from any accusation, the risk is not worth the reward of helping any child.
Henry, St. Petersburg, FL, USA
Whilst it is true that men (generally) are afraid of working with children for fear of being labelled a peadophile the problem is more deep rooted than that. It is not just the fear of being accused of sexual abuse or improper motive that men fear but also being worngly accused of anything.
The situation has become so bad that it is virtually impossible to recruit male teachers in primary schools. In addition a lot of community activities are folding up - or by passing children because men known to them have been wrongly accused in the past.
The problem would not be so bad if child protection agencies firstly acknowledged that people (men and women) are sometimes falsely accused of child abuse, and secondly exonerate them when they this happens.
The position has become so bad that men and women no longer know who to believe when a person has been accused. This undermines confidence in the system and cannot be helpful, and only places children in more danger.
Michael Barnes, Cardiff,
Could another way of getting around this witchhunt, the trauma caused to children (and the implications listed in the article) not be by reducing age of consent laws and loosening penalties on "sex" crimes which seemingly have no victim?
As far as I understand, this view was shared by many children's groups in the 70s, before the said tabloid witchhunt had began, especially in the Netherlands, where the abolition of consent laws (and subsequent use of rape laws) was almost put into practice.
These views would seem to be well informed, in that scientists have never been able to establish anything *innately* harmful about erotically expressed intergenerational relationships (as opposed to societally induced trauma).
Further support would come from closely related species of primate, in which reciprocal and pleasure - driven intergenerational sexual contact is an everyday occurance (see the Bonobo, humans' closest relative).
Could abolition not be the best protection measure?
L. Ervèil, Plymouth / Devon, UK
While I have no problem with feminism per se, it is the malignant branch of feminism that has criminalized and demonized the sometimes sexually expressed relationships that have existed between boys and older males since the beginning of time. The intent is to marginalize men and to feminize boys - and, sadly, they are succeeding.
Empirical, Thule, Greenland
This is genuine problem and I am not sure it just inhibits men from volunteering. As a single man you do feel under unwarranted scrutiny in a whole range of different social situations. You know you have nothing to feel guilty about - but you can't help sensing that because you don't routinely appear with a partner or spouse you are automatically suspected by those who don't know you. We have created a terrible climate of fear and suspicion in this country which is disproportionate and also damaging to normal human relationships. Little girls disappearing on holiday but not from the front pages of the tabloids does nothing to help this media-fed paranoia. Contrary to increasingly popular myth not all men are abusers.
Tim, KIngston,
I can relate to this story! I as a male am afraid to be around little children, I have one on the way, but up until now I have been without kids and I will be 31 this year. Just recently at a family function on my wifes side, her step mom invited some of her family to the function and I was SHOCKED when one of the little girls that had been clinging to me all day came up to me and said "My mom said I can't play with you any more cause she doesn't know what you'll do to me" I took this very hard cause for one I love kids and for some reason they love me, I am a volunteer fire fighter and always the first one to sign up to do saftey talks with the kids and just this one Instance set me back a TON, And this was Family (somewhat) so I can relate to the men that are affraid of being called paedophiles.
Iggy, Loveland, Colorado
This is not a new phenomenon and it is no surprise to me. As far back as 1987, when I was off work for three months recovering from a heart attack, my offer to help with swimming lessons at my daughter's primary school was refused, quote "Because you are a man". This despite a desperate shortage of women willing or able to help out with supervising, changing and drying small children of both sexes.
The assumption that all men are predatory and/or pre-disposed to abusing children is just plain wrong but that episode was disturbing enough to deter me from ever offering similar support again.
As a child in less cynical times, I enjoyed the generous gift of time and advice from scout and youth club leaders but I have felt obliged to limit my attempts to 'repay' this to the mentoring of younger colleagues in my professional life.
I am truly saddened that it has become so difficult for men to make their unique contribution to society because of an unfounded phobia.
Will, Colchester,
Afraid to work with children: Will that lead to reluctant to father children while resident in UK? This will further pressure men to leave UK and British women to cry, "Asian bimbos stealing our men".
Think "paedophile crazy" is the expression I'm reaching for.
Andrew Milner, Yokohama, Kanagawa