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“Happiness lessons” that are used in many schools to teach children to be sensitive, empathetic and caring are under threat from a new hardline approach that advocates mental toughness.
Academics say that instilling a robust attitude among pupils can improve their exam performance, behaviour and aspirations dramatically.
Mentally tough children are less likely to regard themselves as victims of bullying and will not be deterred by initial failure. Having this outlook can be learnt, according to Peter Clough, head of psychology at the University of Hull.
Along with AQR, a psychometric-testing company, he is conducting a long-term study of children and evaluating their mental toughness.
His ideas — based on sports psychology — have been used in industry. Dr Clough claims that a simple test and follow-up techniques can transform performance.
He said: “We know that students with higher levels of mental toughness perform better in exams. They are also less likely to perceive themselves as being bullied and are more likely to behave more positively.
“We also know that by using a variety of techniques — many of them very simple — we can increase an individual's level of mental toughness.”
Dr Clough is working with 181 pupils aged 11 and 12 at All Saints Catholic High School in Knowsley, Merseyside. He will help to make them mentally tough and hopes this will “open doors of opportunities that they would not previously have considered”.
Parents and teachers are also being shown the intervention techniques.
Dr Clough said: “There is no point in working with pupils who then go into a classroom environment where nobody understands the process, and home to parents who have no interest. Showing the teachers how the techniques work means that the benefits that pupils are getting from this study can be repeated year after year.”
Dr Clough and his team measured the levels of resilience and emotional sensitivity of pupils using a questionnaire. They then picked almost 40 pupils with low scores. They are now using techniques to improve their rating, such as visualisation, anxiety control and relaxation, improving their attention span and setting goals.
It comes a week after two academics said the emphasis on Seal (Social and Emotional Aspects of Learning) was “infantilising” students.
Dennis Hayes and Kathryn Ecclestone, of Oxford Brookes University, said that teenagers were encouraged to talk about their emotions at the expense of acquiring knowledge. This left them unable to cope on their own.
They pointed to the increased presence of parents on campus, and of counsellors and support officers, saying that “everyone was looking for a disability to declare”.
Dr Clough said that he helped children to set realistic goals and used techniques that worked rapidly. These include imagining scenarios and random-number tests that forced them to concentrate.
He said: “Really concentrating is a skill a lot of them have never had. We try to get them to realise they are in control of their lives and need to stick a foot in the door when they get the opportunity. No one else is going to make that decision.
“They don't recognise that people who are successful sometimes have less ability but more drive. They are drawn to a 'shortcut culture' of instant success and dream of winning The X Factor, but don't see that you need to practise before auditions.”
Of happiness lessons, which aim to boost self-esteem, Dr Clough said: “All the positive thinking in the world isn't going to make a third look like a 2:1.”
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What on earth indicates that sensitivity to others and positivity exclude the possibility of mental toughness? It sounds like teaching the next generation to adopt a culture of selfishness and the me-first attitude of the 80s.
Jem, London, UK
The psychologist has a point. And whilst there isn't a 'one style fits all' with students, children need skills to handle everyday life. Normally parents instil such things in them but it's falling to schools. It's amazing how many kids are unable, even at 18, to be responsible for themselves.
Maggie Jones, Melbourne, Australia
There are no hard & fast rules to the 'right' way to 'instill' so called required lessons in children. Each child has a unique understanding of their world (as every child psychologist will be aware). Each child's background will be different, as will their parent / parents / carers parenting styles
Sharon, Tadcaster, UK
In this age of mollycodling, telling kids all the things they should not be doing, a positve approach and guidence of what they could do which may include climbing a tree or falling off your bike these are fundimental to doing something better next time! you going to learn everything from computors?
Dave Farmer, Broxbourne, England
Children should be playing an hour of sport per day minimum until the age of 18.
This would make an enormous difference to the country as a whole - i.e. how pleasant it is to live in.
Henry, Hong Kong, China
There is no simple method for preparing children to face the world, and it is about time that psychologists faced that harsh truth. I presume that collecting research money is more important, though, than adding to genuine human knowledge.
Martin Baldwin-Edwards, Athens, Greece
Good article! School is tough but so is life, so what better way to ready children for the world outside. Bullying, social exclusion, pressure to achieve - it happens everywhere. Learning to compete, deal with pressure and accept your loses along with your wins is vital in life.
Toughen up kids!
Simon, Edinburgh,
Absolutely agree with this. The "sensitive" & "empathetic" qualities are also incredibly important. Its all very well having a strong individual, but unless they can work well with others then what's the point ?
Nadim Khan, West London,
at last, some common sense; too many children at secondary school expect to be negotiated with and want their feelings respected, rather than actually getting down to work.
nigel, London, england
and success is defined as............?
peter c, devizes, wessex
All Saints Catholic School, huh?
Whatever happened to "the meek shall inherit the earth"?
Dr Clough may do well to look at some of David Sloan Wilson and E O WIlson's recent work on Group Selection.
Kidd Garrett, Bristol, UK
Well reported and a great article, being political correct is destroying our countries and culture, the socialists and liberal do gooders are turning children into child like adults who demand everything without working for it. I don't know of any society built on weakness and a work shy population.
shane, blackburn, ENGLAND
So, it is OK to bully a bully.
These classes go from one extreme to another. What happened to parents teaching children to behave and schools giving them knowledge?
Igor, Ljubljana, Slovenia
Spot on! Weakness in the West has undermined the will to uphold the ideals we cherish. Rotten from within, ready to collapse. Guese who's in the wings to take over?
Aubrey Sonnenberg, Sydney , Australia
hey teacher!!!! leave them kids alone.
stuart, liverpool, mersey