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Ask our expert: My children have four Easter eggs on the shelf already and I’m worried about the amount of chocolate they’re going to eat over the Easter weekend – do you have any suggestions? Lisa Barok, Lancaster
You’re not alone, but remember that Easter only comes round once a year and providing your children eat healthily the rest of the year then a weekend of indulgence isn’t going to make a huge difference.
Here are some ideas on how to manage their chocolate intake:
Hide: Put the eggs on a high shelf or in a cupboard so the children can’t reach them (even using a stool!) or see them – out of sight, out of mind.
Beware, though, sweets can mysteriously vanish. I’m really mean and my children’s Halloween cauldron is on the top of the dresser, this is forgotten a day or two after Halloween and by next year it’s always empty.
Ration: Allow them to have a piece every day but only after they have eaten their main meal and only if they are still hungry. You’re not using food as a reward here but asking the children to listen to their tummy and figure out what hungry and full feel like. There will be some occasions when they won’t want chocolate, as they feel full after eating their meal.
Alternatives: Ask relatives and friends to give a small present, a book, colouring pens, jigsaw or game, vouchers or clothes instead of chocolate. One of my friend’s girls love posh flip flops and are always desperate for extra pocket money so they can save up to buy as many as possible for the summer. Even if it’s just 50p or £1 it will encourage children to save up for something they really want.
Choice:Give your children the choice of doing an activity such as swimming, going to the park, cycle ride, walk along the beach or through the woods, ten-pin bowling or on a picnic instead of having an Easter egg.
Overindulgence: At worst if the children eat huge amounts of chocolate they will end up feeling ill and it will probably put them off eating more of the stuff for a while. It doesn’t work with all children but at least it gets it all over and done with in one day. Just make sure they brush their teeth really well that evening and get them back onto good eating habits the next day.
My daughter once ate a whole chocolate orange in about 3 minutes flat when she didn’t think anyone was looking and felt really ill afterwards. She then realized that her brother and sister still had their chocolate oranges and ate them over the next two weeks when she didn’t have any left. They refused to share any with her, too. She now saves it and has one piece a day.
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I agree with Tom. Hiding the chocolate or trying to moderate their intake will only make them want it more. Children are born knowing intuitively what and how much they should eat. Outside interference teaches them to mistrust their own instincts, and this leads to obesity and eating disorders.
Abi, Newcastle,
If children aren't free to control what they eat then they don't own their own bodies.
Just keep lots of chocolate in the house and let the children decide for themselves how much they want, without monitoring the situation. They will find the right balance.
The more people try to limit food, the more they think about it, and encourage others to think about, the more of a problem it becomes. Worrying about getting fat defeats its own ends.
In life there are much more important, more beautiful and less parochial matters to think about than food.
By all means share your theories about nutrition, tooth decay, diabetes, obesity and whatnot. But first try to understand those theories yourself, and use persuasion only, not manipulation or force.
Tom, Bristol,
Who is in charge in your household? Parents (the adults in the house) should decide how much chocolate and other treats the children have. Either let them indulge and eat them all at once or YOU ration them and stay firm, but fair.
Jayne Taylor, Llandrindod Wells, Powys
This is a ridiculous article. And reflects the sad state of affairs in this country. Why not exercise some parental control and moderate the amount of chocolate they are consuming? Surely parents still have some rights to supervise their children?
JC, london,
Hey, when i was a kid i lived through several Easters - and survived. With, it would seem, no apparent long term disastrous effects from eating easter eggs.
I honestly can't believe this is even being discussed...ever heard of common sense? If you haven't, ask your kids, they probably have more of it than you.
I guess this question proves the sad fact that one doesn't need brains to breed.
Paul, Brno, Czech Rep
Twelve eggs is about right, although it depends on the size of the child. And the size of the eggs. A large child could probably eat ten or twelve middling eggs or eight really large eggs, while a smaller child might have difficulty with more than five large eggs. This could lead to feelings of inadequacy which would not be in the spirit of Easter.
Furriskey, Singapore,
Easter only comes round once a year, but so too do birthdays, Christmas, Halloween to mention but a few. All occasions when it seems acceptable for children to eat more sweets than usual??!! That aside, it is far better for children to eat chocolate than chewy or boiled type sweets that leave behind sugar deposits on teeth.
Disregarding giving sweets at all at Easter is a growing tradition & I think one that doesn't hurt. Like your comments on alternatives, a book, clothes, a toy, a trip to the cinema or local farm or a small amount of money to put towards something are far better options & more healthy. Often these days, children get Easter gifts from friends & other close relatives. If each was to give the child a small donation instead, the money would amount to being able to buy or do something to remember that Easter by.
And speaking of 'remembering', I think it is important that children are reminded exactly why we celebrate Easter & that it is not all about chocolate eggs!
Rebecca Wyke-Little, Leatherhead, Surrey