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A couple who spent £64,000 on IVF treatment over ten years, despite being warned they had only a 5 per cent chance of conceiving, are finally celebrating the birth of a daughter.
In an IVF marathon thought to be one of the longest in Britain, Delina and Simon Tree finally conceived on their 15th attempt. Experts said their case was unusual, as most couples either conceive on the fifth or sixth attempt or give up soon afterwards.
The Trees, who are both 40, suffered a miscarriage, considered adoption, twice remortgaged their home and worked hundreds of hours of overtime in their struggle to become parents.
However, Mrs Tree, who gave birth to Olivia last month, yesterday said the heartache and hardship had been worthwhile. “We are so happy. All that time, effort and money was definitely worth it in the end.”
Mr Tree said he hoped that other couples were encouraged by their story. With each treatment costing about £4,000, Mrs Tree, a bank clerk, told how she and her husband, a carpenter, felt like they were “pouring money down the drain” each time they were unsuccessful.
“We have had to remortgage the house twice, take out loans and asked our parents to help us financially,” she said. “I stayed in a job I hated as a cashier manager at the Abbey and Simon worked evenings and weekends just so we had enough money for the IVF.” Mrs Tree, who turned to IVF after a natural pregnancy went wrong and she had a Fallopian tube removed, was examined by dozens of consultants across the country. None could explain why eggs removed from her womb to be fertilised had not developed once they had been put back.
Two years ago she was told by an expert at Oxford’s John Radcliffe Hospital that she had only a 5 per cent chance of conception due to the numerous previous attempts. She said: “Each time I had the IVF treatment I couldn’t relax. On one occasion I fell pregnant but miscarried very early on. It was heartbreaking.”
At one point the couple, of Sevenoaks in Kent, considered adoption, but backed out when they found the interviews too harrowing. Mrs Tree was encouraged by their family GP to begin a 15th IVF cycle. It was successful and Olivia was delivered by Caesarean on January 15. “For the first four months I was terrified. When friends congratulated me it didn’t sink in. I would even go for extra private scans to make sure that the baby was OK.”
Professor Stuart Campbell, former head of obstetrics and gynaecology at St George’s Hospital in London, described Mrs Tree as “very plucky”, as the average woman got pregnant on IVF after five or six attempts.
“Many fertility experts would want to call it a day before it reached double figures,” he said. “There has been a huge psychological toll for the patient as well as the financial burden. What would worry me is the assault on her womb and ovaries from so many cycles of treatment using steroids and hormones.”
Dr Geeta Nargund, a fertility consultant at Create Health in Central London, said that the health issues for women who had so many attempts were unknown, although it was clearly an emotional rollercoaster. “You have to admire her for going on so long. To put yourself through it so many times is amazing.”
About 30,000 women in the UK turn to IVF each year. Latest figures show a 6 per cent increase in the number undertaking treatment.
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Vanessa,
Presumably if and when you decide to start a family you will be adopting rather than trying for a biological child of your own. Trust me: there are few things more annoying than people saying "why don't you just adopt?".
Becky, Leeds,
Evolution - How far do you want to go? Glasses for the short sighted, some people just aren't meant to see. C-sections, some people just aren't meant to live when they try to give birth. Antibiotics, some people just aren't meant to survive infections. Any of these affect you yet?
Rosie, Northampton, Northants
It's obscene that this couple bought a human life for £64,000 while there are orphans who go hungry in the world. When that little girl grows up how is she going to feel about having a price on her head? I bet her parents never let her forget how much they "sacrificed" for her. I pity the child.
Vanessa , Brighton,
Sarah, that's a pretty crass comment on several levels, for a start it makes you appear insensitive and ill-informed, secondly the development of science is part of the evolution of mankind.....ergo IVF is quite natural for the modern human. Well done the Trees!
Doug Bates, St. Albans,
Many congrats to the Trees.- a beautiful story. I admire the perserverance in ensuring a dream within their hearts does not slip away. I was diagnosed with premature menopause at the age of seventeen and in my heart always have felt that I deserve to be a mother. It is heart-wrenching to have this right taken from you when so many are able to having children so easily. I am thankful for doctors and advance research on fertility that allow couples like myself and my husband to have children of our own. My first cycle of IVF with an egg donor is in Sept. As treatment with an egg donor is much more expensive we have chosen to go abroad for treatment. I find it great sadness that we cannot pour our money into the British enconomy, however the costs are just too dear. For those who are negative about such, if you have a desire to have children, I do hope you are never faced with the heartache of infertertility. I cannot imagine anything worse and do not wish this heartache on anyone.
Amanda G, Hertford, England
Albeit a slightly callous choice of wording, perhaps Sarah's comment doesnt deserve such a vitriolic reaction - there is a reason beyond funding implications as to why the NHS will only provide 1 round of treatment. As heartbreaking as i can only imagine it must be, some people cannot have healthy children and their body will not let them try, nor will the NHS condone the continued attempt. Perhaps the thousands spent on unsuccessful IVF treatment by those not blessed with children could be better spent raising an adopted child not blessed with parents? That said, congratulations to the Trees and best wishes for their new family.
Lauren, London,
To Sarah from Chester: I don't mean to be rude, but I sincerely wish that you are blessed with infertility after this comment. I have had numerous cycles of IVF, as well as numerous cycles of artificial insemmination with no success so far. I full intend to keep on going until I have a baby in my arms. I live in New York, so each cycle is pretty expensive. I might also add that I work full time, my husband and I are both part time Ivy League students, and we still find the time, money and energy to go on with this, while presenting a brave face to the world. One of my cycles was conducted during mid term examinations, and we still managed respectible grades. Your comment is shameful. I too, like the family in the article, have lost a fallopean tube due to a natural preganancy gone wrong, so I know how it feels. I believe I am destined to have children, irrespective of the comments of insensitive people like yourself. I congratulate the family wholeheartedly on pursuing their dream!
MS, New York, NY, USA
Many, many, many, congratulations to Mr & Mrs Tree,on the birth of there daughter. They are truly an inspiration of iconic measures to everyone for there true gritt and determination I commend them and thank them for shaing there story, giving hope to millions of couples.
Thank you.
I have just had my 2 embryos transfered last Friday and prey with all my heart for the success.
You must be so proud well done
Kindest regards
Mrs Staples Warwickshire
Mrs Staples, Warwickshire, UK
Having endured the emotional rollercoaster of 6 IVF cycles myself before finally giving birth to twins, I can't imagine how the Trees endured 15 cycles. Each cycle means enduring so much stress, countless daily self-administered injections, a strain on a loving relationship, and all with no guarantee of success at the end. The Trees deserve nothing but praise for their ability to endure so much adversity before finally succeeding. Good on them.
Janet, Hong Kong, Hong Kong
Sarah,
You are certainly entitled to your own opinion, but as one other comment says, it's all too easy to make a snap value judgment when you aren't the one with the problem.
I have just been told I am infertile and will most likely need IVF to conceive. My infertility isn't "unexplained", I have a medical condition, one side effect of which is infertility. I desperately want children. If I do need IVF my husband and I are probably going to have to fund the treatment ourselves.
The Trees haven't spent £64,000 of NHS money - they worked and paid for their treatment by themselves. What business is it of yours to criticise how they decide to spend their wages? I sincerely hope that you don't find yourself facing infertility in the future; but if you do, then you will truly know how awful and hurtful your comment was.
Becky, Leeds,
To Sarah from Chester. If you get cancer would you refuse treatment that is medically and legally available to you because you think that 'evolution' is trying to get rid of you? This couple did nothing illegal and sought medical treatment for a medical condition. Shame on you.
Alma, London, UK
To be honest, when I was younger and looking down from my fortress of assumed fertility, I felt the same way as Sarah...but it's amazing how your perspective changes when it's you who can't conceive. Well done to the Trees.
Nicola, Rugby,
I also take great offence to Sarah Chester's comment. I doubt she'd say that if she was in a similar position herself.
Gloria, London,
I take offence to Sarah's negactivity , This couple deserve praise, this is something they obviously feel passionate about, we need more people like this is in the UK. This also encourages other couples having fertitlity treatment.
wendy , London, UK
thats just ridiculous Sarah
deb, devon,
Whatever happened to evolution... Some people are just not meant to have kids.
Sarah, Chester,
Having just been through my 3rd failed attempt of IVF, this story has given me hope to continue
Judy, St Lucia, W I
I'm so pleased for them. They showed great courage not to give up and I hope everything goes well for the whole family.
Clare, Worcester,