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Parents who fail to curb their children’s misbehaviour or overeating in order to have a quiet life are “grossly selfish and irresponsible”, according to David Cameron.
The Conservative leader said that all adults — parents as well as strangers — should have a duty and the authority to tackle badly behaved youths, as he started an inquiry into the quality of childhood.
The campaign to restore adult authority over out-of-con-trol children is part of a strategy to make the Conservatives the champions of social revival in Britain. It comes after a United Nations report claimed that Britain was the worst country in the developed world to grow up in, with endemic family breakdown, poor education and rampant juvenile crime
The childhood inquiry, to be chaired by David Willetts, the Shadow Education Secretary, will look for ways to strengthen the family, improve schools, encourage more flexible working and alleviate child poverty. It will try to cut the health and safety “red tape on childhood”, which Mr Willetts said was preventing young people enjoying “vivid lives and everyday adventures”.
Speaking in Manchester at the start of the inquiry, Mr Cameron attacked parents who failed to look after their children properly. He said: “If a child is eating too much, it’s the duty of a parent to stop it happening. Allowing harmful behaviour as the price of a quiet life is grossly selfish and irresponsible. Being a good parent isn’t just a gift to your child but to the whole of society.”
He added: “Children learn their morals and their manners from their parents. And that means both parents — including fathers.”
Mr Cameron made clear that responsibility did not rest with the parents alone, and that other adults must be given the authority to step in and stop misbehaviour. His comments echo growing alarm that adults have become too frightened of children who they see misbehaving. Parents who fail to curb their children’s misbehaviour or overeating in order to have a quiet life are “grossly selfish and irresponsible”, according to David Cameron.
“Communities have an important role in bringing up children. Collective disapproval is a powerful tool in regulating behaviour and establishing social norms. If children are misbehaving, we should say something. If we’re met by a volley of abuse, then other adults have a duty to intervene. We don’t want to live in a walk-on-by society” he said.
He also said that businesses must accept responsibility not to harm young people with violent video games or sexualised children’s clothes.
Mr Cameron believes that the coming election battle will be over quality of life issues.
He said yesterday: “The great challenge for the 1970s and 1980s was economic revival. The great challenge in this decade and the next is social revival.”
However, Beverley Hughes, the Minister for Children, said: “David Cameron has shown again that he is all style and no substance. What his policy group won’t tell you is that Cameron has voted against Labour’s flexible working legislation and investment in education.”

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David Cameron has obviously never attempted to remonstrate with a badly behaved child, whether accompanied by their parents or not! When I attempted to have a word with a woman whose son was walking along the vegetables in a supermarket (most hygienic!) my partner called me a harridan and told ME to calm down. On another occasion I was at a party where the children started throwing things onto the table (where there were candles). I started to tell them off and, again, was physically restrained by another guest from approaching the youngsters in question, as if I was about to hit them. It seems to me that right-thinking adults are now being lumped in a category with paedophiles. The fact is that a child does not know right from wrong and needs to be shown the error of his or her ways. We are prevented from doing this by a sick and perverted society that has forgotten how to act normally around children, in case we are accused of doing something awful by the child or other adults
Kathy, London,
Most of the children in my city are badly behaved, very few are not. That's a huge task ahead. 'Collective disaproval', won't stop young people carrying knives. We are more lawless than you or Mr Blair know, Mr Cameron.
judy, Liverpool, england
What fool suggested that strangers help discipline children? I can only believe he is a personal injury lawyer!!
Also, the namby-pamby laws on the books at the moment would guarantee the stranger would face charges. If ever there was a case of not thinking beyond stage one this is it. For those who did know this concept, it means what will be the consequences of this plan,and not what was expected by the 'vision'. It used to be called thinking.
Desmond Taylor, Houston, TX
I suggest that 'Dave' has a wander round the centre of Edinburgh on a Saturday night implementing his suggestions, without a police escort, and sees how he gets on.
Bernard Mahan, Edinburgh, Scotland