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THE discovery of a long-lost brother would, for most families, be a source of
joy. But, in the case of the family of Ian McEwan — whose novels hint at
unspeakable secrets — it has stirred up uncomfortable memories.
News of the reunion of McEwan, the Booker prizewinner, with a brother handed
over for adoption at a railway station in 1942 has revealed a family divided
by illicit love and loss.
It has now emerged that McEwan, who has written of his regret that during his
childhood he “lacked siblings”, also had a half-brother whom he barely knew.
The brother was estranged from the family at the age of 11, when his widowed
mother married her lover.
The wartime affair between McEwan’s mother, Rose, and his violent father,
Major David McEwan, began when she was married to Ernest Wort, a house
painter, by whom she had two children, Roy and Margaret.
She fell pregnant by McEwan while Ernest was on active wartime service abroad
and gave birth to a son, Stuart David. She was already dependent on the
parish for financial support and when she heard her husband was returning
home on leave she decided to put her son up for adoption.
In December 1942 she placed an advert in the Reading Mercury that stated
baldly: “Wanted, home for baby boy, age 1 month; complete surrender.” The
three-line advert was sandwiched between two wanted notices, one from a band
seeking a violin, saxophone, clarinet and trumpet, and the other for
second-hand furniture.
The baby was handed over to a family at Reading station. Ernest Wort was
killed in the Normandy landings in 1944 and she was able to marry McEwan
three years later.
Rose still faced a dilemma about what to do with the two children from her
first marriage. A source close to the family maintains that one of the
children was placed in a children’s home and another was sent to live with a
grandmother, in Ash, near Aldershot.
Both McEwan’s half-siblings were last week unwilling to comment. Roy Wort, 72,
lives in a modest, immaculately maintained terraced house in the south of
England.
He was 11 when Rose married McEwan, but, when asked who brought him up, would
only say: “I wasn’t involved in the second marriage.” Asked whether David
McEwan was responsible for his exit, he replied: “That had nothing to do
with it.” Referring to his sister and mother, he added: “We lost touch.”
His sister, Margaret Hopkins, 68, now lives in a small chalet on the south
coast, just two streets from the beach. She also refused to comment last
week but her husband said suggestions that she had been made to live with
her grandmother “didn’t sound right at all”.
According to her previous husband, Brian Chelu-Armour, Margaret lived with
both her mother and grandmother in Ash while Rose was waiting for her second
husband to be given military accommodation. Chelu-Armour was unaware that
Margaret had a brother called Roy. “The name was never mentioned,” he said.
McEwan was born in 1948, and endured a lonely childhood as he lived in the
shadow of his father, whom he claims beat Rose. “At home, there was violence
in the air,” he wrote in 2001. “She was always frightened of him, and so was
I. I drifted away and saved my darker thoughts for my fiction where fathers
. . . were not kindly presented.”
McEwan’s novels contain scenes that may offer glimpses of the author’s life.
The Cement Garden, published in 1978, opens with the ominous line: “I did
not kill my father, but I sometimes felt I had helped him on his way.” It
follows a family of abandoned children after their overbearing father dies
of a heart attack.
In The Child in Time, published in 1987, the main character’s parents are both
modelled directly on McEwan’s own mother and father. One scene captures the
father’s bullying behaviour. “Was it a nightmare . . . when he put his red
and angry face close to Stephen’s and said he was a mother’s boy, or worse
picked him up in front of visitors to hold him like a babe in arms and
rocked and shushed him?” McEwan has declared a “complete lack of interest in
family trees (and) poking around in parish registers”, but in his books the
characters are frustrated by their limited knowledge of their parents’
lives.
In The Child in Time he wrote: “Even when their stories began to concern
himself, Stephen knew next to nothing of how his parents met, what attracted
them . . . or how he had come about.”
The book went on: “He owed it to his love for them not to let them slip away
with their lives forgotten.”
Were it not for the determination of his adopted brother, however, McEwan
would still not know the truth about his family history. At the age of 60,
Stuart David, who now uses the name David, turned to the Salvation Army’s
family tracing service. All four were reunited before their mother died.
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