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Just like the woman herself, the writing of Diana, Princess of Wales, displays both charm and vulnerability. “Heaven knows where on earth I begin to thank you for the most magical six days on the ocean waves!” she wrote to her friend Dodi Fayed after a trip together in 1997. “It is a bit of ‘Oh my God’ situation!!”
It certainly is – with double exclamation marks. Last week that and other personal letters from Diana to Dodi and the royal family were revealed for the first time, adding yet another twist to the enduring drama of her death. In one letter, written three weeks before the car crash that killed her and Dodi in Paris in 1997, she gushed about the holiday they had enjoyed: “This comes with all the love in the world and as always a million thanks for bringing such joy into this particular chick’s life.” The word million is underlined, as if flashing one of her brilliant smiles. Her signature peeps out coyly from beneath two kisses at the bottom of the page.
What is one to make of it all? Depending on your point of view, the letters either give an extraordinary insight into her love for Dodi or they tell us virtually nothing about how and why she died.
To Mohamed al-Fayed, the father of Dodi, the choice is clear. He released the letters in the hope of bolstering his claim that Diana was murdered by MI6 on the orders of the Duke of Edinburgh because she was pregnant by Dodi and was about to marry him. Other letters released by Buckingham Palace at the same time were intended to give the opposite impression. They revealed how Diana had written to the Duke of Edinburgh, addressing him with apparent affection as “Pa”.
After weeks in which the inquest has proceeded with what one American observer called “bone-aching tedium”, sparks suddenly flew. The headlines blared: “Revealed: intimate letters between Diana and Philip”, followed by “Diana’s letters of love to Dodi”. A beautiful model appeared claiming that she, not Diana, had been engaged to marry Dodi, and one of Diana’s close friends was reduced to tears while giving evidence in court.
For the ordinary loyal subject in the Clapham Ford Focus, it’s all mighty confusing. What has the inquest revealed? Was Diana in love? With whom? Was she at war with Prince Philip? And will the inquest ever achieve anything?
The first letters to emerge were those between Diana and Philip. They were written in June and July 1992, when Diana’s marriage was breaking up and her tribulations were already public.
In one Diana began: “Dearest Pa, I was so pleased to receive your letter, and particularly so to read that you are desperately anxious to help.”
In another she wrote: “Dearest Pa, I was particularly touched by your most recent letter which proved to me, if I did not already know it, that you really do care.”
To Sarah Bradford, biographer of the Queen, the apparent friendly relations between Diana and Philip come as no surprise. “I knew about the Duke of Edinburgh letters, the kind of tone they were and how nice,” said Bradford yesterday. “They were not what they [had previously been] made out to be – horrible.
“Pa is what she called him. Ma and Pa. Their relationship was generally pretty cordial. It wasn’t wonderful, given all the difficulties. But he was very nice to her. She was a pretty girl; he liked pretty girls.”
Hugo Vickers, another royal biographer, agreed: “The letters reveal that he was supportive and he was doing everything possible for Prince Charles and the princess to continue their marriage.”
While the letters may be superficially cordial, however, they must be seen in the context of their time and Diana’s mindset, according to Andrew Morton, her confidant and biographer.
“When Diana got the first letter [from the duke], she was so upset she rang a mutual friend, who contacted me. She wanted to know the name of a solicitor to help her draft a response,” he said. “Five solicitors’ names were put into the frame.
“What people have to understand is there’s a difference between how she perceived the letter in the context of the time and the contents as expressed some 15 years later.
“In the context of the time, she was being attacked by Prince Charles and his supporters. She felt under siege by his family, she felt alone and vulnerable.
“She had lived for 10 years knowing she was at the centre of a conspiracy to lie to her about Prince Charles’s relationship with Camilla Parker Bowles.”
Morton argues that Diana was upset and startled by the first letter from Philip, but that they became more amicable as time wore on. Whether or not the duke could be amicable while still plotting to have MI6 bump off Diana is a matter for the inquest to decide.
In the hearing last week, the main line of attack advanced by Fayed’s lawyer was that Diana had been so in love with Dodi that they were planning to get married. Another letter revealed that Diana had given Dodi a pair of cufflinks that she had received from her father.
She wrote: “Darling Dodi, these cufflinks were the very last gift that I received from the man I loved the most in the world – My Father – They are given to you as I know how much joy it would give him to know they are in such safe and special hands . . . Fondest love, from, Diana.”
Michael Mansfield QC, acting for Fayed, argued that the letters reflected a deep relationship: “She was treating this relationship with Dodi as a serious matter, wasn’t she? It doesn’t suggest it was little more than a fling after a couple of days.”
Mansfield was cross-examining Rosa Monckton, who had been a friend of Diana. Although Monckton conceded that the letters showed Diana’s affection for Dodi, she said the princess “tended to speak and write in an extravagant way”. It is a point echoed by others who knew the princess.
Robert Lacey, another royal biographer, said: “I think they are very affectionate thank-you letters with someone she has started a relationship with. Diana always wrote thank-you letters – she was brought up to do that.”
Morton agreed. “I’ve read lots of her letters over the years,” he said. “It’s always lots of love and fond wishes and touchy-feely. She was taught by her father always to send a thank-you note immediately.”
Did Diana’s gift and missives to Dodi go beyond such courtesy into the territory of overwhelming passion? That, again, is something the inquest must decide.
Certainly some emotions boiled over last week. Monckton’s daughter, who has Down’s syndrome, has been ill recently, according to friends.
“She’s not been at all well. When she gets something, she gets it badly,” said a friend. “Rosa’s been up night after night. She was totally exhausted.”
In court Monckton found herself bombarded with accusations from Mansfield that the princess had not told her the truth about Dodi.
He suggested that Diana may have concealed her love for Dodi because Monckton disapproved of him.
As Mansfield bored on, it all became too much for the exhausted Monckton; she burst into tears. “Diana was a very good friend of mine for six years,” she said as she wept. “She was godmother to my handicapped daughter and was by my side when I buried my other daughter. She was a very true and close friend.”
However, she added: “That doesn’t preclude her from not telling me certain things. You don’t tell people everything the whole time.”
To complicate matters further, the inquest also heard that both central characters had other love interests. Diana, the jury was told, had been obsessed by her broken love affair with Hasnat Khan, a heart surgeon.
“She spent a lot more time talking about Hasnat than Dodi,” Monckton testified. “She was really missing Hasnat. She had hoped they could have a future together and she wanted to marry him.”
Meanwhile, a former model called Kelly Fisher testified that Dodi had planned to marry her, not Diana.
Fisher, 39, said she and Dodi had had a whirlwind romance in 1997 and that he had given her a diamond and sapphire engagement ring only weeks before he was photographed kissing Diana.
The Fayed camp has denied this and last week Fisher fired back: “Why would I sit here 10 years later, when I have a completely new life, and lie about being engaged to someone?”
In the decade since Diana died, detectives in France and Britain have pored over every detail of her death. Books have been written, documentaries made. Lord Stevens, former commissioner of the Metropolitan police, delivered a report, at a cost of £3.7m, concluding that Diana’s death was an accident.
Now Lord Justice Scott Baker is presiding over the inquest, which he opened with a masterful address summing up what was known of events. So far little new has emerged.
With the inquest likely to cost millions more, parties on both sides must hope that something new surfaces that reveals who loved who and when and why they died.
Or whether it was, after all, just an accident.
Additional reporting: Abul Taher
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