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A schoolgirl has been found hanged from a tree in an apparent suicide — a year after a fellow pupil killed himself after being bullied.
Belinda Allen, 14, was a pupil at Tanbridge House School in Horsham, West Sussex. Ben Vodden, 11, had been taunted by other pupils there and a school bus driver before he hanged himself in December 2006.
Passers-by found Belinda suspended from a tree on Tuesday evening. She had a scarf tied around her neck.
Her parents, Kevin and Lindsey Allen, and her older brother, Russell, said in a statement yesterday: “Belinda was much loved by all of her family and friends. She was bright, bubbly, fun-loving and kind. We are all going to miss her very much.”
A friend of Belinda’s, who asked not to be named, said that Belinda was also a victim of bullying at the school and was called a lesbian by classmates who laughed at her dress sense.
The 15-year-old friend said: “It’s such a massive shock that Belinda is dead. People picked on her because she was a bit different. She was very quiet, but she was teased about her name and what she wore. She liked wearing dresses and the bullies called her a lesbian.”
She added: “I knew Belinda was being bullied, but I didn’t know how badly she had taken it. On the outside she was happy and bubbly.
“It wasn’t so much a particular gang that bullied Belinda, it was just a variety of different people at the school, but that’s what it’s like at schools these days. Kids are like that. They bully people for anything, whether it’s true or not.”
Belinda, of Southwater, West Sussex, was a budding dancer who had hopes of studying at a performing arts school. She left suicide notes addressed to her parents and teachers. Sussex Police said that they were investigating an apparent suicide.
Friends posted tributes to Belinda on community websites. Laura Kingdon, a close friend, wrote: “We will miss you, and you are always in our thoughts.”
Hinting at the girl’s troubles, Beka Jackson, a classmate, wrote: “I know that you were in a bad state but I was here for you and I told you that every day. I shall miss you. The thing my mind can’t get over is the fact that I only spoke to you yesterday. I thought that we would graduate Tanbridge together and keep in contact, but now I guess that shall not come true. The pain is unknown to my mind and body its physically and mentally a huge shock to everyone.”
Yesterday pupils at the school were having counselling. Jules White, the headmaster, was unable to say whether Belinda’s death was related to bullying, but said that the school was in shock as a result of her death.
In a statement, Mr White said: “This tragedy has affected our school community very deeply. I informed all students and staff about this distressing news directly this morning. Their response has been remarkable. The care and compassion everyone has shown to each other has been uplifting in these most difficult of times. Students have also been given plentiful access to appropriate professional support.
“First and foremost our thoughts are with the student’s family and it goes without saying that we have already been in contact to offer our condolences and support.”
An inquest was told last year that Ben Vodden hanged himself from his bunk bed with a length of shoelace after the driver of his school bus regularly joined in abuse by bullies.
On the day of his death, Ben had returned home from school on the bus, where he had suffered three months of name-calling, swearing and gesturing since arriving at his new secondary school that September.
The inquest was told that the bus driver, Brian McCullough, who still works at the same company as a driver, was responsible for some of the bullying, allegedly calling him Master Bate, Billy No Mates and Dickhead.
After coming home, he sobbed to his mother: “I’m sorry, mummy.” He was found hanged in his room soon afterwards.
Ben’s mother, Caroline, said: “He felt unable to tell me, as his mother, because of the language used. Ben told his father, ‘Brian the bus driver has been calling me Master Bate because he says I’m a little w*****’, and he said everyone on the bus was calling him Master Bate.”
Mr McCullough, a former security officer, denied calling Ben Master Bate but said that he had called him Dickhead and Billy No Mates in what he dismissed as “friendly banter”.
One parent at the school said after Belinda’s death: “This is terrible news, we can’t believe there has been another tragedy. When Ben died everyone said ‘never again’.”
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i went to tanbridge and i had alot of bullying to but i over come that and the teachers were of no help no matter how many time i had said and didnt turn upto class becouse of the bullys they still carryed on as if notting had happend.no wonder this is happning notting is done about bullys.
hollie, portsmouth, uk
I cannot believe the behaviour of an adult in joining in the verbal taunts and - by the sound of it, leading them - of an eleven year old boy. That is not friendly banter. That is evidence of a pathetic and misguided adult who should have had the common decency and integrity to know better and behave better. It reminds me of the horrible case of Lori Drew in the US. Such malicious and juvenile behaviour by an adult should be addressed, and I cannot beleive this person is still working for a school system.
Jennifer, London, UK
I'm sure Jules White, the headteacher here is sincere and the condolences, support and counselling he is providing now at the school genuine. However, if my experience is anything to go by, it is too little, too late. Verbal bullying is not taken seriously, not enough is done about it and children are suffering.
We would not put up with verbal abuse in the workplace and the law would support us in this, why should our children have to put up with it at school? The case of Ben Vodden with an adult contributing to the bullying is sickening and the fact that this person is still in his post demonstrates that this sort of verbal bullying, dismissed as 'verbal banter' is not taken seriously.
a.beacham, devon,
I also went to Tanbridge House School some years ago and experienced a small amount of bulling. One teacher in particular did not help matters and ridiculed me on two occasions. I can't imagine how kids these days deal with text or email bullying which surely just exasperates the problem. I no longer live in Horsham and when I do return and see some of the bullies I pity them as they have amounted to nothing!
Belinda and Ben R.I.P
Joanna, London,
I am saddened, from the other side of the world, to see my old school in the headline news, once again, for the same thing - teenage suicide. What a pointless loss. I too was bullied at Tanbridge, as were many others, and when I go home to Horsham I regularly pass those in the street that did it. Difference is they're still living in the same place doing the same thing. Bullies are cowards and the only way to stand up to them is with strength and sometimes force which I resorted to once. There was nothing wrong in my day with a good old fashioned fight. For bullies (many of them with limited intelligence) they understand this type of retort better. However, the problem with that nowadays is that the law defends these idiots and no doubt they would end taking the 'bullied' to court for assault. Counselling's all well and good but what about some life skills lessons for kids on standing up yourself? Belinda and Ben might still have been alive today with some empowerment.
Rachel, Auckland, New Zealand