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Children are not acquiring basic moral values because today's generation of adults are such poor role models, a leading charity said yesterday.
Research by the Children's Society suggests that two thirds of adults believe that the moral values of young people have declined considerably since the time when they were young.
The charity, which questioned 1,176 people, said that consumerism, the rise of the celebrity culture and weakening family bonds were undermining traditional moral values among young people. But it also blamed adults for failing to engage with children and being too eager to criticise their behaviour rather than intervening and helping them to navigate the challenges of modern life.
The society is conducting a two-year project into modern childhood in Britain. Its latest findings are in a paper focusing on values.
Bob Reitemeier, chief executive of the society, said that adults needed to take more responsibility for the young people around them. “We reap what we sow when it comes to teaching children values. Every adult plays a vital role, which we should nurture as much as we can. Unfortunately, it is easier to criticise children than to invest in them, and it is the children most in need of positive role models who are becoming disconnected from their communities and wider society.”
The society will publish its final report and recommendations in 2009.
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A return to Christian values, where right and wrong are clearly defined by God, rather than some vague personal morality, will solve this problem.
RB, Aberdeen,
Behavioural problems have declined rapidly since National Service was stopped. We have irresponsible/undisciplined babies giving birth - it's a recipe for disaster. Hardly anyone bothers to get married which sends out the wrong signals to
their offspring.
Jacqui Broadbridge, Southampton,
British social values have declined . This because of the fact that british adults are so much obsessed with sex and booze that these are the only things that occupy their lives . Religion in britain is now seen as being backward and traditional . How do you expect the younger ones to behave then
Tawanda, Leeds, UK
Religion exists for a reason and that is to provide a moral framework and guideline. If a society does not value religion how do you expect it to survive morally.
Tawanda, Leeds, UK
I have taught my children what I learned in the 1980's, as teenager plus, that you look after number one and the rest can go to hell, and do not believe anyone who tells you different. This ethos is still applicable and relevant today.
Mark, Yorkshire,
Is it any wonder that there has been a decline in children's morality, when the ones in my area who stand around, smoking, spitting and dropping litter, are doing so with their 30 year old mothers and 45 year old grandmothers. Worryingly, they're breeding in greater numbers than the rest of us.
Duncan, Rainham, UK
Kids spend almost no time with parents who get home from work at 7pm or later.Kids are brought up by corrupt TV, friends, nannies. The nations want tax-paying workers, and to hell with family.TV wants viewers and to hell with quality.The kids lack values, just as they should. America is the same.
Martha, Vermont, USA
The Welfare state together with irresponsible parents has certainly contributed to this situation.
I hope the Politically Correct mamby pamby brigade are proud of their disasterous achievements.
I hope a future Government will reverse this social engineering policy before it really is too late.
Stephen Holmes, Withington , UK
I'd like to see a responsible adult trying to intervene with someone else's offspring if they were mis-behaving or being anti social etc the Politically Correct stasi Police would arrest the giving them a Criminal Record.
Thanks to the mamby pamby do-gooders!
Stephen Holmes, Withington , UK
One can only help but feel that the media and all its pedo stranger danger is to blaim I remember back in the 80's when i was child strangers would tell you off in the street, now strangers wont even rescure a 3 year old for fear of being labeld a pedo, mabye its time the media backed off the tearm.
MR W Jones, Liverpool, England
I've always felt my generation - baby boomers -were pitiful. When I was a teenager in the sixties the likes of John Lennon had the gall to ridicule my parents' generation, one that had fought Hitler.
As this generation has reached middle age its attitudes are as selfish and hedonistic as ever.
Eddie Reader, birmingham, england
Nothing new here.
Ask any teacher, primary or secondary.
They have been forced to take on the role of parent for more than 20 years now -
and often without the support of the parent(s).
Go figure!
R Bingham, Lauzun, France
The Left and Statists can now feel a glow of success in their wretched social engineering experiment that is the Welfare State.
The Welfare State infanitlises adults and allows abdication from self-responsibility. Socialism permits further abdication over responsibility for others.
Tim Carpenter LPUK, London, UK
The phrase "weakening family bonds" looks like a euphemism for the meltdown of the family in Britain which is reflected in the figures on youth drinking, violence, teenage pregnancies, abortion and sexually-transmitted diseases. A government opposed to marriage is not going to help all this .
George, Bolton, England