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Fifty members of the Silver Ring Thing, an American group which promotes chastity before marriage, will descend on the village to warn teenage virgins of the risks of premarital sex and try to persuade them to wear a “chastity ring” on their wedding fingers.
The only problem is that there seem to be no teenage virgins in Claygate. After a day spent scouring the village for candidates, The Times could not find anyone between the ages of 14 and 19 who even knew of such a person. One 15-year-old boy called Owen unwittingly summed up the situation when he asked: “What’s celibate?”
All this confirms the fears of the people behind Silver Ring Thing who have chosen Claygate, a microcosm of Middle England, as the first stop on their forthcoming tour of the British Isles. They will be calling at Birmingham, Manchester, Glasgow and Belfast with a handful of teenage American converts in tow to act as role models.
Although Silver Ring Thing is a Christian group, its message is not about finding God. Rather, it can be surmised from the words of its British representative, Paula Jacobs, a mother of three teenagers. “It is heart-wrenching that children are being taught almost how to kill themselves,” she said. In Silver Ring Thing’s view, there is no such thing as safe sex.
When she was a child, Mrs Jacobs said, there were only three sexually transmitted diseases being passed on. Now there are 30.
She recited them like letters of the alphabet. Condoms are no use as they do not prevent skin-to-skin contact. Human papilloma virus (genital warts) is, if Silver Ring Thing’s statistics are accurate, contracted by 46 per cent of girls the first time they have sex. “Invisible” infections such as chlamydia can lie dormant and undetected, causing cervical cancer a few years down the line.
“The Government is teaching ‘safe sex’ but the truth is dying to be told,” said Mrs Jacobs.
“We are truly plagued by sexually transmitted dis-eases and what we are teaching our kids is not working. I don’t know why we are not looking at the statistics. Abstinence is the only way to stay disease and pregnant-free.”
Not many teenagers in Claygate have heard of chlamydia. Asked if they think the spread of sexually transmitted diseases among the under-18s is a problem, they nod their heads but are stumped when asked to name any diseases.
Janine, a confident 16-year-old who has had a steady boyfriend for two years, took the opportunity to criticise her peers: “The amount of people who sleep together in Claygate, they probably all have something,” she said. “They’re disgusting. There’s this one girl who goes around saying she’s been raped but she’s just embarrassed because she slept with a 12-year-old. I’m not being funny but girls around here are just slags.”
She went on to give us a tour of preferred areas for teenage trysts: in the park, outside the tennis courts. “Someone did it last week in the paper bins in the Somerfield car park,” she said.
Such bold talk is not confined to street corners and bus shelters.
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