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The secret of Japan’s exceptionally low birth rate is out — more than a third of married couples do not have sex.
“The situation is dismal,” said Kunio Kitamura, the director of the country’s Family Planning Association, after a Government survey suggested that 34.6 per cent of couples had not made love for more than four weeks.
“My research shows that if you don’t have sex for a month, you probably won’t for a year. This is very bad news for the country’s birth rate, and something the Government needs to look into urgently.”
The survey of 1,400 people, for Japan’s Ministry of Health and Welfare, indicated that 39.7 per cent of all Japanese couples aged 16 to 49 have not had sex for over a month, a 5 per cent increase on the results of the same survey two years ago.
Doctors and anthropologists say that there are a number of reasons why the Japanese are giving up sex.
One is the lifestyle of many urban Japanese men, who leave home early, return home late and tired after a long commute and tend to spend weekends and other free time socialising with work colleagues or catching up on their sleep.
Women, too, are more likely to work and have less time to themselves.
Some couples do not expect to maintain a regular sex life after the arrival of a child and small, thin-walled apartments offer few opportunities for privacy.
Poor communication is also cited as a factor, especially among older people, who are constrained from discussing sex even with their spouses.
The Japan Sexual Science Association defines a sexless marriage as one in which there has been no sexual contact between husband and wife for over a month, and in which this situation is expected to continue.
Other studies have confirmed the impression given by the survey.
Japan came last in a table of 29 countries compiled by University of Chicago researchers into which had the greatest sexual satisfaction, (Austrians were first.)
The country also came last in a survey by Durex, the condom manufacturer, which found that Japanese have sex 45 times a year, compared with the average of 103.
In the past ten years Japanese politicians and bureaucrats have become preoccupied increasingly by the country’s declining birth rate, which threatens a demographic crisis in the next half century.
The fertility rate, the number of children that the average woman will bear in a lifetime, fell to a record low of 1.25 last year, well below the “replacement rate” of 2.1.
At the same time Japanese are living longer. A situation looms in which a decreasing number of working taxpayers has to support a growing population of pensioners, leading to budgetary collapse.
Various reasons have been advanced to explain the declining fertility rate — from the expense of bringing up children to the availability of contraception. But it may be mainly due to the most basic reason of all — that Japanese are giving up on sex.
— Shoshika is a Japanese word created to describe a future society without children. The population is projected to decline by 20 per cent by 2050, by which time a third of Japanese will be over 65
Source: Japanese Government
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It used to be the case in the UK that many couples married to have sex. Now with pre-marital sex to hook the partner and marriage to keep them in place many British women get married pretty much so that they need never have sex again now they have their man trapped . . .
Adam, London,
i m a foreigner living in japan an d i myself have a japanese husbend called sexless.in tokyo we r livign and its a really bad situationg going and getting larger int his society. japanese man mostly like those erotic videos ans stuff, they like seeing high schoool girls but they dont like it to really touch his woman.actually they are like sisters ang brothers inthe house no more...
many of the marriages are unhealty.even the one mine.it give you a big stress to not to have sex i mean a sexless marriage. but for japanese man it does not seems to be aa a problem.it looks for them you just marry as if you just find a job to work.the relation between husband and wife does not need to have the bad side of the relation.
lulu, tokyo, japan
I say, wven if the birth rate is declining, it's not a big problem. Basically we're able to conceive a child using stem cells to create artificial sperm, and a woman's egg. NO MEN NEEDED!
Seth, New York,
I think it would be incredibly valuable if the Japanese Government started to fund psychological and sociological research to get to the bottom of the reasons that this is happening. While a Japanese psychologist would be able to make much more informed hypotheses than I can, I would hypothesize that part of the problem is the way Japanese people view women in the culture as Mags said, as well as the prevalence of erotic media in the culture. The Tibetan Buddhist monks used to hold the belief that desire can be extinguished through sexual excess. Perhaps the excess of pornographic media in Japan is leading to a decreased desire for "the real thing"? I'm not suggesting that pornographic media should be completely removed from the lives of Japanese men, I'm simply suggesting that perhaps lessening the amount viewed would increase sexual desire. Once again, it would be good to have some research done on this problem.
Nick, Meadville, USA, Pennsylvania
There's a massive cleavage between Japanese men and women...no pun intended. Women are sexually objectified in the media and work place. They are harrassed regularly by their bosses, male co-workers, strangers and the beauty business. J-women don't want to have sex with disgusting beasts who mistreat, abuse and belittle them. The expected heights of grooming and cute here are more than any woman with a job or a brain can attain. As long as you're cute-appear young, pre-pubescent, malleable, you're sexy. J-women were brought up to serve men in every instance a man might like service and it doesn't sit well with this generation as they got a strong whiff of our 1960's women's lib. Not to mention that the Japanese still pride themselves in being 'two-faced' and so anything of note contaminating communication between the sexes/in society is lied about even when the truth is a plain as the separate bedrooms married couples sleep in. I know these things from 8 years living in the country.
Mags, Tokyo, Japan
I am an Englishman living in Japan. My wife is Japanese and pregnant. Having lived here for quite a few years, I have had a lot of time to talk to and observe the Japanese. It seems to me that one of the main causes in the low birthrate is the sheer cost of having a baby here. Most couples I know who have a baby would like another one, but with only one of the partners working, and the relatively lowish salaries, they can't afford it. Perhaps if the government made it cheaper..... they'd get more babies.
Mark , Niigata, Japan