Ashling O’Connor in Bombay
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The couples who gather each evening on the stretch of reclaimed land jutting into the sea around Bombay do not come for the view.
In one of the most densely populated cities in the world, few places offer sanctuary for young lovers constrained by cultural conservatism and the constant glare of relatives. They steal kisses and exchange whispers in the most intimate setting available. But this tender act is enough to get them arrested.
More than 100 couples were rounded up by police this week for activities that in Western society would be regarded as innocent. In India, where kissing in public is technically illegal, they were deemed to be in “objectionable positions”. They were taken away in vans, fined up to 1,200 rupees for indulging in “obscene” behaviour and forced to endure the humiliation of calling their parents from behind bars.
Such a reaction by the authorities would not warrant comment in India’s less tolerant north but in the country’s most liberal city, the home of Bollywood and the commercial capital, it has left public opinion sharply divided.
The promenade is littered with couples. Most appear to be simply chatting. A few are kissing. Three retired government officers are also enjoying the evening breeze. They are among the local residents whose complaints prompted the police activity. They claim the couples are making families and joggers feel “awkward”.
Ramesh Dhatrak, 65, said: “We have no objection to them sitting and talking but kissing and other things, of which I cannot speak, are not. They can hire a room. This is India, not England.” The police say they are only combating gross indecency but many of those arrested claimed to be doing nothing more than holding hands.
Critics say the outburst of moral policing is evidence of an inherent insecurity among Hindu nationalists and the elder generation about the breakneck speed of social change.
“The fundamentalists are colliding with modern youth,” Dr Ranjana Kumari, director of the Centre for Social Research in Delhi, said. “India is modernising and we, as a society, are not coping with the new-found confidence of boys and girls to be together openly.”
The clampdown in Bombay comes less than two months after the Shiv Sena (Army of Shiva), a nationalist party accused of orchestrating violence against Muslims in the 1993 riots, swept to power in the municipal elections.
The party, whose supporters attack people celebrating Valentine’s Day, helped to force a ban this month on sex education books in state schools. “At a time when India wants to project itself as this modern, growing world power, decisions such as these remind us that the country continues to be governed by people who equate modernity with promiscuity,” an editorial in The Hindu lamented.
It is a confusing time for modern Indian youth, bombarded by the advertising industry with images of sexual freedom but compelled by social norms to reject them.
“Indians love brushing things under the carpet. Stop pretending that we don’t have sex. We do. Look at our population,” said Anup Kutty, editor of the the lads’ mag Maxim, whose cover this month has the cricket presenter Mandira Bedi posing in a bikini top.
But despite social progression, at least one 20-year-old agreed with the police action. Leaning on her boyfriend’s motorcycle, she said: “Hugging and kissing looks bad. I think you should wait for all physical things until after you are married.”
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I think its high time that the law protect me against these so called moral police. If kissing is legal I should be protected for practicising it. If I'm still harassed and fined its the failure of the law enforcement agencies and gov as a whole. And as for people who advocate moral policing, I feel sorry for them. And I'm convinced that my parents generation was more liberal and accomodatig than mine.
Malik, San Francisco, US
Victor get a life breast feeding in public is not a moral issue and should not be covered by your "RULES" it has nothing to do with anything other than the correct feeding of a child. If you cant face it look away its not as if they have both breasts out on show swinging them about to turn you on. Be a man and accept it for what it is.
simon, newcastle, uk
what is indecent about a mother breastfeeding her child , why criminalise something so natural, yet it's alright for galz to go wild in clubs and show they tits.
i think our pirioties are confused here
watz, southend on sea , essex
Another display of modern India's hypocrisy: it's ok for middle aged perverts to watch young Bollywood hotties flashing their bits on primetime Indian television, but it's wrong for couples to kiss in public?? Indians need to realize that those women who prance about wearing nearly nothing on Indian tv (an effective marketing strategy, I might add!!) are actually Indian and live amongst us. If it's ok for us to condone them then surely we can respect a couple's desire to express spontaenously mutual feelings of love and tenderness - who cares if they're on the road or on their roof of their home !!!!!?
And in response to you Sami from Kuwait - the issue is not whether or not 'kissing in public is the only way to demonstrate modernity' - that is a matter for an individual to consider. What I don't get is why the Indian state defends and encourages moral policing and yet allow what can only be described as grossly liberal attitudes towards Bollywood and Indian 'pop' videos !!!
Udaiveer Anand, Birmingham, UK
Have you seen the sexual innuendos in Bollywod films? It can't be one rule for Bollywood and another for Mumbai. Indian men are so highly strung with sexual frustration that all they do is stare at any female in the streets of India and offer obscene affections.
An Indian cinema will echo with wolf whistles and whoops as soon as the scantily dressed Bollywd actress makes her appearance. A society which is so driven at being non-sexual has left social skills among India men inept. You should respect Indian women, all boys are told by their dads; what a joke outside the family walls. The is the same in the UK; a group of Asians together and the Barbarian alter Ego kicks in and its suddenly acceptable to be discourteous
If the Indian "Moral" Police are so concerned then arrest anyone going to see the next Shilpa movie... oh but no, it's acceptable to flamboyantly portray it in film but you must remain inhibited and submissive in real life. Silly little me
J-La, London, UK
You feel feeding your baby as nature intended is morally wrong Victor? And your a Homophobe? Maybe you are ever so slightly too uptight? You don't believe in personal freedom? I think you need to get out more...
Danny, Glasgow,
perhaps we need a few rules here, like not taking out your breasts in public to feed your child. Men kissing each other in a way as if to fall right through the others mouth. should I go on and on, I would but I do not have enough space
victor, westclff on sea, uk
Is kissing in public the ony way to demonstrate modernity ?
sami, Kuwait, Kuwait
Different stroking for different folking. Which reminds me how times
and places change how In the sixties the big news was couples folking, not stroking, in the
public parks of Copenhagen.
Eugene, Heidelberg, germany