Dean Nelson, Delhi
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INDIA is to urge couples in Britain and other western countries to adopt thousands of unwanted children languishing in orphanages throughout the subcontinent and save them from a life of poverty and emotional destitution.
There are more than 11m abandoned children in India, where a growing number of newborn babies are being dumped anonymously in cots placed outside orphanages in an initiative to deter infanticide.
About 90% of those abandoned are girls whose poor young mothers cannot afford to keep them. They face a bleak future as beggars, prostitutes or menial labourers if families cannot be found for them.
Last year only 4,000 children escaped that grim fate through adoption. Of those, about 1,000 were placed with families overseas and fewer than 100 came to Britain. Now, in a revolutionary change of policy, the Indian government has decided to increase the number of children available for adoption and to place thousands more with families in Britain, Europe and the United States.
Last week it announced plans to speed up bureaucratic procedures and make it easier for foreign families to adopt.
Under current rules the process usually drags on for more than a year. The new proposals call for a maximum waiting time of just 45 days. Ministers say the process must be accelerated so that loving homes can be found for the babies before they become institutionalised.
The change will be welcomed by childless British couples seeking to adopt abroad and finding their prospects restricted in countries from Romania and Russia to Vietnam, where curbs have recently been introduced, fuel-led in part by fears that adoption was being used as a cover for child trafficking. The British government warns prospective “inter-country adopters” that the process can take three years.
UK campaigners said this weekend that the changes in India were good news for its orphans and for western families who want to adopt them, but emphasised that there were still many British-born children in need of loving families.
David Holmes, chief executive of the British Association for Adoption & Fostering, a charity that helps to find families for hundreds of children every year, said: “It’s important to remember that even if India relaxes the rules these couples will still have to go through the same process that couples adopting within England go through.”
But he added: “Foreign adoption in India might be a little girl’s only chance and so we can see why getting a child into an adoptive family quickly is immensely important.”
At the Cradle orphanage in Delhi, five newborn girls are dumped in a “street crib” outside the security gate every week. A bell attached to the crib rings in a doctor’s room as soon as a child is left and the babies are rushed into one of two crisis wards where they are assessed, dressed, fed and treated.
Last week there were 10 girls and one boy in carrycots on the floor of one crisis ward, happily gurgling, sucking their thumbs and sleeping. Half of them will be adopted by families overseas who pay the orphanage £250, but the remaining babies will face sometimes insurmountable problems in being matched with an Indian family.
According to staff at the home, the darker-skinned babies suffer from a common prejudice in favour of fairer skin. Many will want the baby’s complexion to match their own, so that they can deceive relatives and pretend the child is their natural offspring.
An especially pretty two-year-old girl called Devika has been at the home since she was left in the street crib shortly after she was born and no Indian family has come forward to adopt her.
“She has dark skin,” explained one of the orphanage “ayahs”, or nurses. But she has now found a foreign family and will be leaving the orphanage in the next few weeks.
Devika and 130 others at this sprawling, spotless bungalow are among India’s luckiest abandoned children. Almost nine in 10 will find new families, and those placed overseas will live lives of comfort that could never have been envisaged had they been raised by their natural parents.
Many more orphans are living in poorly funded homes with dilapidated dormitories little better than prison cells and have hardly any prospect of escaping to a better life.
J K Mittal, chairman of India’s Central Adoption Resource Agency which oversees all the adoptions, admitted: “Our procedures are too cumbersome. It takes more than a year to adopt an Indian child from overseas. But it should be done within a couple of months.”
To adopt an Indian child, couples must be financially secure and must have been together for more than five years. They must be between 30 and 55, with a combined age of less than 90. Single people are eligible but not same-sex couples.
“Parents should educate the child about its own background and culture because when they’re older they will want to know about India,” Mittal said. “But the basic requirement is love they must be able to love and care for the child.”
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my sister want to adopt a baby 2-3 years (male)
dinesh jain, ujjain, india
I agree with you Billard. I'm Indian and wanting to adopt at 25 but 30 is too late for me! They really should lower the limits. People in India usually get married 22-28 anyway. I want to adopt a child and I'm not sure why I have to wait when I'm 30 to help!
Santh, North Carolina, USA
We runs a cultural Institute for boys. We are interested to Adopt 12 years and above boy. Will provide free education and tradition.
Mr Anup, Ahmedabad, India
I live in Canada, my children are grown and would love to save a lil indian girl. I dont understand there are so so many baby girls losing their lives, but yet it takes so long to adopt and so expensive. None of this makes sense. I would love to provide a safe loving home to a babygirl.
Debbie, St. Stephen, Canada
We have one daughter who is 2 but would love to adopt an Indian girl so they can grow up as sisters.. how do we do this?
Caroline Helly, London, UK
i am keen to adopt a girl baby so that i could placw worlds joy and love to her, please help me to adopt .iam married and live on UK with a 4yr old son
Shobana, Camberley, united Kingdom
i would love to adopt baby girl..so please tell me how to go about
smitha, adliya, bahrain
I am a US citizen of Indian descent. I am so glad that the Indian government is finally giving these poor children a chance. I hope that the children will be able to lead happy lives.
Smeeta, Hillsdale,
My daughter was adopted from South Korea at 5 months old. Yesterday we celebrated her 8th birthday. No words can express the love you feel for your children no matter if they are biological like my 17 year old son or my adopted daughter!! She has been a gift to our whole family!!
Abby Murray, West Harrison, USA
I am a 30-year old woman, infertile, in a loving relationship with a 40 year old man. We live in Australia. We have only lived together for one year but are getting married in 4 months. As soon as we reach the 5-year limit we will immediately apply to adopt from India. The wait is so hard.
Jenny Ekberg, Brisbane, Australia
I and my husband want to adopt Indian Girl. I am from Gujarat, as a part of my job I came across some orphan homes and learned most of the couple wants to adopt boy. I decided that time I will adopt one girl and give her lots of love and comfort. we do not have lots of money.
Dhruva N Shah, Souderton, USA
Adopting a child is something extraordinary and I think we all should try our level best in this direction and encourage others. I'm from London how do I do it please anyone???
Abdullah, London, London
Hi, I and my wife are keen on adopting a baby girl from India. We are Indians living in Scotland.
Sachin Chandorkar, Kirkcaldy, United Kingdom
I am very intrested in adopting. I do not have tons of money to travel back and forth a lot but plenty of money to provide. Is there a way to adopt from India with out so much travel?
Heather, La Vergne, USA
Guys, Hats of to all of you for showing an intent to adopt a child.I am writing this bcoz of heart breaking story of 3 days old baby girl, while giving birth to this baby her mother died,and now her father is not ready to keep this girl,Believe me her parents come from very affluent families.
Kishor, Banaglore, India
Hi, My husband and I would love to adopt from India but I we have no idea where to to start. We would be so grateful for any information to point us in the right direction to get started.
Christine , London , UK
I am a South African and I am interested in adopting a child from India. I am of Indian origin. I will be visiting India in the next month and would like contact details in order to process an application to adopt a child.
David Maharaj, Johanesburg, South Africa
Hi,
We are parent of 4 years old boy child NRI leaving in the gulf. We want another child to complete our family and we want to adopt a baby. Please help......regards
Jayaraman, Muscat, Oman
My husband/I have adopted 2 times from India, if you are in the U.S. and need direction feel free to email. Single woman,
older couples can adopt - you simply have to be willing be make adjustments.
Renee', Austin, U.S.a.
Hi!
We are from Canada and are looking into adopting an Indian child into our family. We already have one 3 yr old daughter but want to adopt second time around. We are both of Indian origin but born in Canada. (Parents are Indian) Internet focusses on US process what about Canadian? How long?
Nandini Sarkar, Ottawa, Canada
Please encourage the orphanages in India those who can raise your adopted ,sponsored kids under the surveillance of webcam in the orphanage. The kid while going to school,while eating should be able to wave to their sponsoring parents abroad from Indian orphanage. after graduation they can reach U.S
Gabriel, Amalapuram, South India
I am looking to adopt a baby from India. Please could you direct me to the rght channels to begin the process. All the websites appear to be US based and I am South African.
Aliesha, Durban, South Africa
I am from Greece and I am interested in adopting a girl from India. Please let me know if
this is possible and how it can be done.
Evangelia Blery, Athens, Greece
My wife and I are a young couple "HIndu' and we are looking to adopt a baby girl
We saw the article and was wondering if we would be elligible
Does any restriction apply for residents of Trinidad & Tobago ?
How long does this process take start to finish ?
Vijai Singh, Port -of- Spain, Trinidad & Tobago
I am looking to adopt a baby from India. Please could you direct me to the rght channels to begin the process. All the websites appear to be US based and I am South African.
I am in India in Jan /Feb 2009 and willing to meet if required.
Dina , Johannesburg, South Africa
i am an indian womn married for 7 years .. i am 43 and my husband 48 .. can we adopt? can anone reccommend where we should go .. we live in englnd, my husband is american .. please advise anyone ..
minu, virginia water, surrey
I am very happy about this because I am sponsoring an Indian orphan girl that has already suffered a lot. Even if she lives in extremely poor conditions, her intense draws and letters share with me some of her intimate dreams.Maybe this will help me to adopt her for real and give her a better life.
Mafalda, Lisbon, Portugal
its a pitty that because the laws and paperwork the children are the ones who suffer and have to wait so long to be loved and cared, waiting endless months while goverments just worry about papers and money....
Every minute should count...
Silvia Rodrigues, Houston, USA
Last I knew India required one of the adoptive parents to be of Indian descent in order to adopt a healthy child; otherwise only disabled children could be adopted by them. Have things changed or is this still the practice?
Kathryn, suburban Chicagoi, USA
We are wanting to adopt my friends little boy who is around 3years old what is the process from india to germany.
Mac Rai, Soest, Germany
We are an Indan couple settled in the UK since 2003 and have a 4 year old daughter. We ar very keen to adopt an indian child, preferably a girl under the age of 1 year, My husband is going to India in June and would like to visit you if convenient. Any information sent beforehand would be helpful.
Sameen Uppal, Leicester, UK
My husband I thinking about adapting two children,
My husband is age of 65 very good health
Iam 53 year old and also good health.
Age wise we are not qualified to adapt children.
India is putting discrimnaiton on age . Put people like us very diffcult to adapt.
Usha
California
usha, Sacramento, usha
My wife and I are working towards adopting a baby from India. She is currently present in India for the last 5 months trying to adopt but with little sucess. This article gives us a lot of hope. All the agencies we visited told us there is 2 year or moer wait time for international adoption. If any one has any good information as presented in this article please post it here. Thanks in advance.
Kiran, Seal Beach CA, USA
I am very moved by this article. I was researching international adoptions and discovered this article. I would love to know how to apply for adopting one of the girls in need.
Sandra Heath, Clarksville , USA/ Tennessee
I am very touched by this article, my husband and I are looking to adopt a baby or child and would love to take any babies that are not wanted. I do have plenty of love and kindness to ofer. I pray for all of the babies and children and just pray that one day we may be so lucky to take on our new adopted child as our own, feel free to contact me if you know of anyone who needs their baby or child to be adopted, we would love to give it a wonderful home here, Lilly, Texas
Lilly, texas, texas
Surely to open up more orphanages for abandoned girls or 'offer' more for adoption abroad is completely side-stepping the issue. The Indian authorities are evading their own responsibilities. Indian society must chnage. Incentives must be given so that the law banning dowries is upheld. People killing femal foetuses and infants and carrying out illegal ultra sounds must be prosecuted rigorously. At the beginning of the 19th century in Britain, children were being hanged for relatively minor crimes, such as stealing. Society had to actively reform to stamp out such atrocities. Indian mothers should remember the old dictum: "A son is a son till he gets him a wife. A daughter's a daughter for all of her life."
Maggie, London, UK
How do we go about adopting a child from India?
Maria, Glasgow, Scotland
Its a Shame that people like to have their own genes move forward than to adopt the abandoned girls and leave them on the mercy of the god.
siri, NJ,
How do you adopt Indian children in the UK, though? I can't seem to find any links applicable to the UK, only to the US and Canada, any information would be greatly appreciated.
Angelika, Glasgow, SCOTLAND
Shame shame....anyone who can love a child should be able to adopt one that has been cast out by the society and their family ...how dare they exclude same sex couples who have the compassion and love to raise a child deemed unworthy and a burden?
It seems very sick that the people (country, laws, society) who would throw away their own offspring should have a say as to who is worthy to love and nuture what they can not.
It is time for the world to change.
Everyone has value.
zeno z zimmerman, San Francisco,
Sadly, there is not much that can be done. Sex selective abortions and sex determination testing (i.e. ultrasounds) have been illegal in India for over a decade. The decision to murder or abandon young girls has roots in cultural gender discrimation. Men earn far more than women, bringing more economic promise to their families; additionally, women become property of their husbandsâ families, once they are married, so they no longer contribute, financially or otherwise, to their own immediate households. A more significant aspect of this arrangement, perhaps, is the fact that it is sons who continue the family lineage. I'd say that the obsession with carrying on the family line, and the focus on patrilineal decent, is much more a factor than financial arguments. Additionally, men are offered control, or imperative participation, in religious roles and ceremonies. For example, in the Hindu culture, only a son can light his parents' pyre (assuring their passage to the afterlife).
Rachael, Schenectady, NY
I am strongly in favour of inter-country adoption and any humanitarian aid required but I think this is tackling the problem from the wrong angle. Surely there should be global condemnation for any country or culture that views females in this way. What is the UN doing to stop this?
Karen, Adelaide, South Australia
I've just read the above article on the need to adopt Indian girl babies/children. Can you tell me if any get adopted out to New Zealand
Heather, Invercargill, New Zealand
we would like to know the orphanages where L.K Mittal, chairman of the Indian governmentâs Central Adoption Resource Agency is involved
parchure, london, U.K
From Richmond, British Columbia (Canada) we are so eager to adopt a female child from India. We too are of Indian background. I am finding it absolutely impossible to overcome the barriers or limitations set by the Indian government. Advise as to how we can adopt a little girl.
Noreen Singh, Richmond , Canada
We would be very interested in the help offered by Innamburan from Chennai. Thanks in advance.
Andreas Gemmingen, Freiburg, Germany
Are there any other opportunities to help them other than adopting them-perhaps assisting with a trade a skil to leading to economical independence even if they are not adopted.
Ateeka, Annapolis, Maryland
on sunday the 8th april there was an article on adopting indian babies but no information on how to go about this. we are interested and wondering if you could give us some information on where to go to get started.
miss T.Pochkhanawala, Nottingham, U.K
Why can the combined ages of the parent not exceed 90? I can understand wanting adoptive parent to be under or over a certain age, but the calculation of under 90 combined seems so odd.
GMO, Los Angeles, USA
I don't know how Angelina saved so many girls in India?
Charlotte,Please explain.She was in India for shooting of her film ,not to save Indian girls!!!!!
A, Texax, USA
We have adopted a special needs child from China and are in process to adopt a special needs child from Guatemala. I absolutely love India (it would definitely have been my first choice had we qualified) but we are too old to qualify to adopt there. I am only 51 but my husband is 67. With our experience (4 grown bio children) and the full support of our grown children, it's too bad the rules prohibit consideration of older parents for these children, especially the special needs or older children!
Vernell, Small town, Nebraska USA
Information about the international adoption process may be found on the website www.internationadoptionguide.co.uk which has been set up by families who have successfully completed the adoption process.
CT, London,
I appreciate people like Angelina Jolie adopting children, the decrease in time is all due to her, thank you Angelina !
You have saved the lives of so many girls in India !
Charlotte, Sherwood, Arkansas
Having read the article about the orphans in India and having recently considerd fostering children my family and I are interested in adoption. If anyone has any information about how to go about it let me know. >
Sam Simpson, Hyde, Cheshire
I have traveled india and always wanted to adopt there. The corruption and time you must deal with in the past makes it so hard to adopt there. This is wonderful news!
kevin, missouri city, tx
I too fell in love with India, and have traveled there extensively. I've seen so many children "castoff" yet they also don't want to let them be adopted by Westerners. I am single and 47, for over 5 years I tried to adopt a little girl from India. The costs were huge, I am financially stable, but not rich, but with my own home and business.
When I contacted the adoption services of India, they let me know, that it was NOT desirable for a single woman of my age , and while I didn't want a baby, any girl from day 1 to 7 years was perfect, they thought MAYBE I would be able to adopt only from the severely disabled children available, with sadness, that's where we left it.
I think of those small little girls on the streets, unwanted with little of the childhood joys and lack of responsibilities all children should have, and it breaks my heart. I may not have the wealth and celebrity of Angelina Jolie or Madonna, but I had the love, the family, and the home for a normal happy life.
Leighann, Cambridge, USA, New York
My family would also like to adopt an Indian orphan and would welcome the support offered to Emma Kendrick by Innamburan. Could you also help us?
David and Lindsey Morton, London,
Thanx so much for this great news!!!!! Finally!!!!!
Being single and 38 I lost my heart to India and have always wanted to adopt two children from there, giving them a loving and careing home. If i had the chance to I would love to establish some SOS Childcare Home. Thanx again India for giving them kids a decent chance!!
Tina, Germany,
If India is really about to become the next economic super power perhaps it will begin to take responsibilirty for its own people and stop relying on western countries to sort out the mess.
India cannot have it both ways - it has to wake up to reality and create a modern society that is fairer to everybody; not just the wealthy people.
Pierre, Toronto, Canada
I think the UK should relax their adoption criteria as there are many children who stay with their paternal families and live a life of little family stability on benefits. People keen on adoption should be allowed to regardless of age and finanial constraint. Maybe the people apposed to adoption are racist and not thinking of the childs welfare. Terrible waste of human life.
VICKY, CHELTENHAM, UK
I don't know why my first comment didn't go through or why it wasn't published. Maybe this time.
I'm glad India realizes that a permanent loving family is the right of these children and is trying to provide that for them. It really shouldn't matter the citizenship of the parents nor in which country that family may live. The children need a permanent, stable family in which to grow up. How unlike Romania who, via draconian legislation which forbids international adoptions, abuses her children and denies them a forever family.
Peter, Timisoara, Romania
on sunday the 8th april there was an article on adopting indian babies but no information on how to go about this. we are interested and wondering if you could give us some information on where to go to get started.
Debra Omalley, stockport, england
An Indian settled in the UK and presently living in India, I shall be glad to assist Emma. She cam contact me through Sunday Times, with specifics and I shall do my best. I shall do everything in accordance with the highest ethical standards.
innamburan, Chennai, India
If India is "pleading" for people to adopt these children, maybe they should be a little less chosey about who adopts them.
I wouldn't qualify because I'm 25 (not 30 yet) and unmarried. So I guess a life of begging and prostitution is better for these kids then someone like me raising them.
Billard Phillmore, Grand Rapids, MI, USA / Michigan
my family and i read this article, and are considering adopting an india orphan, however, we do not know where we can achieve information on doing so. Could you help us?
emma kendrick, merseyside, england
Population control is a myth: a) it's impossible and b) even if it could be achieved, the smaller-populated country would be left languishing in poverty with no way up and out. India needs a population explosion so it has the same large supply of cheap expendable labour every single developed country has used to get their economies to where they are today. It may not be nice, but it's a fact that economic development has never been achieved without it.
Catriona, Glasgow,
I am an Indian,have one child.My request to related governments and UN to tell Indian government to take strong measures to contain population explosion.
kanu parmar, london/sydney, UK/australia
My wife and I are childless after having three children born premature and not living longer than a few hours each. This opportunity is wonderful for couples like us. Unwanted children are wanted by parents across the Western World. Thank you, Indian Parliment.
John, Small Town, USA/Indiana
What a wonderful plan for protecting the right of these children to a permanent family! What an important step in protecting them from the damage that comes from not growing up in a permanent family! I hope other countries which have restricted or eliminated international adoptions will reconsider and open them up again. Giving children the opportunity to grow up in a permanent, stable, loving family -- no mattter in which country that family may reside or what that family's citizenship might be -- is the thing that is truly in the best interests of the children.
Peter, Timisoara, Romania