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A Muslim asylum seeker lost out on an award for volunteer work after indicating that he would not shake hands with the woman who was to present him with the prize.
Alinoor Ahmed Sheikh, a Somali based in an asylum hostel in Tralee, was to have been honoured for his work raising funds for Amnesty International at a ceremony last Thursday organised by the Africa Centre in Dublin. The event was designed to highlight the positive work done by refugees and asylum seekers in Irish communities.
Five minutes before Benedicta Attoh, a member of the National Consultative Committee on Racism and Interculturalism, was due to present the award she was told not to call out Sheikh’s name. “The judges had decided that someone else should get the award,” said Attoh, chairwoman of the Africa Centre’s board.
Attoh did not find out the reason why until she read in Metro Eireann on Friday that his name had been removed because of his refusal to shake hands with women. Sheikh told the newspaper that he had been assured his request not to shake a female presenter’s hand would be accommodated because it was based on his religious beliefs.
His certificate was presented to Therese Elumelu, who was not present, with Sheikh’s name crossed out.
Mubarak Habib, a project officer from the Africa Centre, said that it did not have a problem with Sheikh’s request and claimed there was “a mistake” on the night of the ceremony which had nothing to do with Sheikh’s request. Habib said the Somali would shortly be receiving a joint award for his volunteer work.
Sources connected with the event, however, say there was disagreement between the organisers over how they should react.
Attoh said she would havebeen shocked if a prize-winner had refused to shake her hand. “I don’t think I would have presented his prize if he wouldn’t shake my hand because I’m a woman,” she said.
Ali Selim, general secretary of the Irish Council of Imams, said: “It is part of a code of modesty for Muslims that we don’t shake hands with the opposite sex. I don’t think it involves a personal issue. Not all Muslims would do it but it is a common practice.”
A spokesman for the Irish Refugee Council, one of the sponsors of the awards, said it was a “complicated issue” and that it was unfortunate the incident had distracted attention from the ceremony. “All the organisers will be meeting to discuss the event and to plan how to deal with such problems in the future,” he said.
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They are coming to our country so they should respect our traditions.
Derek, Dublin, Ireland
Obviously Mr Sheikh should not be asked to abandon his religious beliefs. As a western woman, however, my initial reaction would have been shock - We are brought up in a culture where a handshake is a sign of respect! I am sure Mr Sheikh didn't mean any offence.
, London ,
people should consider sheikh's view point, only he is respecting that lady, if respecting someone is wrong then it is no point in discussion like this. we should understand different culture, respect humanity in general and religion in particular. we must stop ways to find faults with others.
zahid siddiq, Michigan, USA
It is difficult for the West to see not touching any part of a woman (including her hand) as a sign of respect. A women's body was considered a property of men and woman mentally accepts that. Even today women have to abandon their family name and take her husband's name.
Hassan, Alpharetta, GA, USA
Our religion taught us to respect women ,i know even some of my friends and elders don't shake their hand with their daughters and sisters just to respect them .This is not a matter of muslim or non muslim ,we can't shake hand with muslim women.
SOHAIL, karachi, paistan
Muslims should integrate with the culture that they have chosen to join or return to a place where they can live under Sharia law. We would not choose to emigrate to a Muslim country and impose our codes of behaviour on them.
Cherry Atwell, London, England
Why would anyone care about catering to his "religious beliefs." When in Rome do as the Romans do. Mr. Sheikh was being extremely impolite, disrespectful, and culturally insensitive.
Scott, Durham. NC, USA
Simply it is narrowminded arrogance to not respect other people's faiths and customs, an attack on human rights. It takes a weak ignorant man/woman to resent other people's dfferences. Why such cowardice and fear? Why take other people's religious practices as a personal assault?! Peace
Munira, Kidderminster, England
Would people have made the same fuss if an Orthodoz Jew refused to shake hands with the opposite gender? I don't think so. We need to ask oursleves, why are we so anti-Muslim? The media is to blame for all the Islamophobic rubbish...
Stuart, London, UK
With an attitude like that, his asylum request should be denied. If he does not want to assimilate into his new country's culture (that does not mean change his religion) then he should be invited to return to the wonderful place he came from.
Lloyd Davies, Chelmsford, Mass, USA
If you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything! Europe has relinquished its hold on its Christian roots just as the United States has. Both will eventually surrender to Islam. The belief that all cultures are equal and that no one religion is better than another will result in ruin
Arcy, Acworth, US
When it becomes acceptable for women to travel alone all over the Middle East, be in public without a male escort and wear a bikini to the beach or hotel pool, then we can believe that Muslims don't want to impose their rules on the rest of the universe. Until then: when in Rome.. - for muslims, too
Moham, West Virginia, USA
The problem is, Ahmed, that the world is not required to follow Islamic law and traditions. We do not have to accomodate Shria law in schools serving special food, provide space in schools for Muslims only, follow handshaking rules. Muslim practices are discriminatory. That is the problem.
Adie, Town, United States
Shaking hands is not a healthy thing to do, passing on germs. Fortunately, there is much less handshaking done in Australia these days.
margie , victoria, australia
Isn't multiculture wonderful!
P Smith, Luton,Bedfordshire, UK
Diversity is always there and will continue. We should grow up to focus on the main issue at hand. The reward is for voluntary work on fund raising and not on handshaking. Alinoor explained his belief about handshaking with the opposite sex, and he was assured that it is OK. So where is the problem?
Ahmed, Dublin, Ireland
It doesn't surprise me that Muslims will not shake hands with a woman. The following are quotes coming from Muslim historical documents:
"Beat your wives if they commit sinful acts; women are captives of their husbands." Also: "Women, slaves and camels are the same."
Philip Saenz, Houston, Texas/USA
I find it particularly ironic that his name was Sheikh!
Martin Scotchmore, Huddersfiled,
Hard line Islam has no place in the West. This man should go back to Somalia and Sudan and live under Sharia.
Well done Ireland for sticking to western values.
Here in the UK a woman Muslim refused to shake the gloved hand of Sir Ian Blair at a passing out parade. Her taboo won.
Ib, Dalston, UK
The brother in question advised the organizers beforehand and was assured he would be accommodated. They allowed him to turn up and humiliated him in front of people. This is nothing less than shameful discrimination and the Africa Centre out to be taken to task.
Mujaahid, Wexford, Ireland
Hey lads at least Muslim men have chivalry towards women, the rest of the men in the west are like sex maniacs. Dont believe go look at rape stats.
Its a paradox that society calls muslims backwards when just last century white women got rights by hunger strikes and blacks were beaten to death!
Abdullah, Dublin, Ireland
Muslims do not shake hands with the opposite sex not because they feel superior or anything like that. They simply do so for their own individual spiritual reasons. No harm or insult intended to anyone. Its up to individuals to practice their faith. Not fair that he was not given the award.
Abdul Haseeb, Dublin, Ireland
Absolutely ludicrious I dont think shaking her hand would result in him being sent to hell
Those moving to European countries should take such matters into consideration -PRIOR- to moving there.
If I went to Egypt I would not proffer my hand to a Muslim after eating a pork chop. Respect maybe
jason pearson, Toronto, Canada
Robin Block.
To most of us in the UK, it appears that Europe's committing suicide too. The average man in the street hasn't got a clue what, if anything, is being done... though I personally believe we are doing something.
I have faith in our people, if not in god.
Charlie, London,
"Muslim bash"? To us in the USA, it appears as if Europe is committing suicide in it's efforts to accommodate Muslims. Unfortunately, the USA isn't very far behind the trend.
Robin Block, Colorado Springs, USA
Meanwhile we Brits are told we should find out about the local customs when we go abroad and make sure we abide by them so as not to offend anyone.
Jane, Birmingham,
So Mr Ali, if one group has backwards views then it excuses others who are equally backward? But anything to Jew bash eh?
Carl McGuire, Leeds,
Orthodox Jews also dont shake hands with the opposite sex . But anything to Muslim bash eh?
Munir Ali, London, UK