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The fairy tale goes like this: they are high-school sweethearts from a small town, Metamora, Illinois, in the American Midwest. He graduates from high school, becomes a US marine and is sent to Iraq. When he returns, they get engaged. He proposes before he leaves for his second tour. She is 18; he is 21. She can’t wait for him to come home.
The tour is cut short. A suicide bomber blows up near his truck and he suffers horrific, life-changing injuries.
A day later he is in San Antonio, Texas, at the Brooke Army Medical Center. She leaves her home town for the first time to fly there with his mother so they can be by his side. She is there for him. His injuries are severe. He will have numerous operations and she will stand by him throughout. It will be a year and a half before they all go home. In the meantime, she will move in with his mother. The homecoming is a triumph. He is a hero and she is his heroine. Their commitment to each other is inspiring and rock-solid. They get married. She is now 21 and he is 24. The wedding takes place on October 7, 2006, and that date is declared a state holiday. Renee and Tyler Ziegel Day. Their romance is covered by The Sunday Times Magazine. They plan to have a family. Love conquers all.
When I tell people that I am going to Illinois to do a follow-up story on Ty and Renee, they are curious. How are they doing?
A little over a year had passed. In January, they got divorced, I tell them. They react with shock and disbelief. What happened? There is more than curiosity in their voice, there is disappointment too. As though it’s personal.
As though they had been promised a happy ending and they were ripped off. It turns out love doesn’t conquer all. It’s a myth.
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Metamora, Illinois, is a two-hour drive from Chicago. The kind of small town people don’t leave. Ty’s mum, Becky, was working as a waitress at the Family Fountain, the local diner on the square, when in 1979 she met Ty’s father, Jeff, who works in construction, and raised two sons – Tyler and Zach.
The late-afternoon sunlight is fading. It is a frigid winter’s day. Ty, now 25, is standing in his kitchen, eight miles outside Metamora, in the house he used to share with Renee before she moved out.
That was six months ago; they’d been married for less than a year. They are still good friends. In January, soon after signing the divorce papers, she was over for his Super Bowl party and they still socialise – even though Ty believes that she’s in a new relationship now and living with “some guy”. He doesn’t know much about it, he says.
There is no animosity when he speaks of her. There are still several framed photographs of the two of them laughing and being affectionate, taken before the bombing. There are also wedding photos, and although it’s clearly the home of a single 25-year-old male who isn’t inclined to doing dishes, Renee’s presence has not been extinguished.
The white fridge is covered with colourful snapshots. Friends, babies of friends, and several group shots of Ty with his platoon before he was injured. There is one in particular that stands out. It is striking – Ty on his own, relaxing in the desert between deployments. His boyish face is handsome and innocent, his body is strong, lean and rugged, his blond hair is cropped short and he is lying down on the sand, hands clasped behind his neck, smiling as he looks into the camera. Confident and self-assured.
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A great article, and even more rare, generally great comments on the article too! Renee, if you are out there, please feel free to tell your story if you want to. Or keep it to yourself. Like your friend said, you both deserve your privacy. But sometimes it helps to share. Good luck to you both!
Nmerichi, Tokyo, Japan
Some people just are not meant to be together and both of them being young and away from each other while they were dating... they didnt get a fair chance to really know each other like you should before you get married. I wish the best for them both and Thank you Ty for your service and sacrifice.
Shely, Coweta, USA
What a beautiful story of two yound people who will love one another for the rest of their lives. God bless both of them with all the happiness each of them deserves.
Erin, Cleveland, Ohio, USA
this is a extremly saddening story i wish tyler the best life and i was relieved when you said they were still friendly because most injured veterans divorces come out to be kinda messy well at least the ones iv heard of in my life. i guess everything happend for a reason. it benefited tyler i think
Taylor, wallkill, united states
not Everyone is like Dave, bromley Some peole think Differently Dont Forget that and Prove him Wrong TY!
Allure, Rittersburg, Germany
Seems to me that they were a little more mature than alot of people who claim to be married. I sense a fairy tale has already happened and the story will continue I am sure. Good luck children.
Gerry, Portland, USA
Respectful, intelligent and thoughtful article.
Neil Murphy, cromer,
Excellent article. It's a pleasure to realise there are people out there whom are still respectful and mindful of others feelings rather than keen to shout and scream and apportion blame in anger.
Marianne, Edinburgh,
This is what happens when people are used for purposes of propaganda.I wish them both the best and hope one day Bush pays for his hand in their ordeal.
Steven, Flint, USA
Very sad, but to be expected given the pressure. Mr. Ziegel was used by the right wing (Press, Politicians, etc.) for their means. When he is really down, none of them came to help. That he only receives $1500 is outrageous.
Skippy
Gerald Bowman, Munich, Germany
Thank you for a very well done article. I felt from the time Ty was injured that it was an awful lot for him to handle let alone Renee being so young. It was wonderful that she loved him enough to help him pull through all the early rehab and healing. Glad they're still friends. jl, Iowa, USA
Janice Loving, Manson, IA, USA
i admit, i was caught up in the fantasy of the original story
another life lesson learned.
Words can not express how sorry I am for them both.
Life was very cruel to them.
It is not fair
Rob, Cooper City, Florida
It doesn't seem to matter who you are where you come from or what you look like-- to stay married-happily- in today's sociaty is probably the hardest thing in life to do. However, I think it's like anything else-- you're going to have to put something into it in order to get anything out.
Gregg Valek, Countryside, Ilinois, USA
God bless our military. May we all have as many second chances we possibly can.
Dan, Council Bluffs,
I think the story was very respectful. As for the many people who chose to be rude, Ty served his country with honor and dignity. Many of you appear to have no respect for our military members and their sacrifices. Freedom isn't free despite what you may believe. God Bless our Military!!!
Donna Kihnley, Fredericksburg, USA
I know both Ty and Renee, and they are both beautiful people. Renee didn't comment because their lives have been public enough and she didnt think that the divorce should be. They both have deep feelings for one another and support each other in every way. God bless them both.
D, metamora, united states
I live in San Antonio and I know both Ty and Renee. This story treated two very noble people with the dignity and respect they both deserve.
Don O'Neal, SAN ANTONIO, USA
Bet he wishes he hadnt gone to fight someone elses war now ...
barry shir, bristol, uk
I think what she did probably gave him the confidence to be who is today. If he was a shy guy before the accident and then she packed her bags and ran out the door he probably wouldn't be as confident as he is now. I thik that she really helped him. And of course, they were way too young. Good story
Rebecca Moses, Conway, USA
They are two young people who married young - how many other early marriages survive? - its very unusual for two people to get together at 18 and stay together forever - his injuries probably kept them together longer than if he had come home uninjured
V, London,
Why should anyone be surprised? I'm ugly and I can't get a girlfriend. Ty is horribly disfigured and thouroughly messed up. Renee is a babe. Would people have been less surprised if Ty had returned home unscathed only to find Renee similarly disfigured?
Wandi, London,
I am trying to see this terrible, but touching story from Renee's point of view. A young, pretty woman with her whole life ahead of her, how could she really be expected to marry and live happily ever after with Ty? God bless him; he served his country in a stupid war and paid a hideous price.
Lydia Dugan, Huntingdon Valley , U.S.A.
I am tring to see this tragic, touching story from Renee's point of view. How could a young, pretty woman with her whole life ahead of her, be expected to live happily ever after with Ty? She probably married him because she felt obligated to. Sad for both of them. Ty, you gave so much for Bush's wa
Lydia Dugan, Huntingdon Valley , U.S.A.
I am quite baffled that after seeing what happened to Ty, his brother Zach volunteered to join the army. And I am even more baffled that when Zach discussed this with his mother Becky before joining the military, she did not stop him. Did she even try to stop him? I wonder. Very troubling, indeed.
Yesh Prabhu, Plainsboro, USA
a sad but well reported tale. a shame renee didn't comment, i feel the reporter would have allowed her to present her thoughts and given a true balance to the story. my best wishes to ty and renee for the future.
elizzar, nottingham, uk
It's been a while since I cried.
Haile, Cleveland, US
though they got divorced,they really share something in life together.it should not be a pity.everyone has his share of pain in life.
and thank you for letting us share the story,share the feeling.
dolly, jiangxi, China