Jane Macartney in Beijing
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If the men of Beijing think they can still emerge from their homes of a morning – unshaven, a bit smelly, still in their pyjamas and slippers – and saunter down to the supermarket or the public lavatories, they can think again: the etiquette police are in town and it is time to spruce up for the Olympics.
Even clothes that Chinese citizens of both sexes would consider smart may not be good enough: white socks worn with black shoes are out, leather skirts are frowned upon, bright nail varnish is a no and woe betide anyone whose colours clash.
Beijing’s 15 million residents have been given their sartorial and social instructions from the Capital Spiritual Civilisation Construction Commission, which has ruled on everything from what (and what not) to wear, how to shake hands and the etiquette of smoking and queueing. With the eyes of the world on Beijing, its residents will not be allowed to put a foot wrong or show a hair out of place.
Zheng Mojie, deputy director of the commission, said that campaigns over the past two years to stop spitting on the street and to teach people to queue had shown results. “The level of civility of the whole city has improved and a sound cultural and social environment has been assured for the success of the Olympic Games.”
The authorities, though, have deemed that more is clearly needed and have issued booklets to four million households across the city. The directions on etiquette stretch to thirty-six areas of behaviour and run to nine pages on an official website.
There is advice on shaking hands, how to use chopsticks at a banquet and personal grooming. “Men’s hair should not cover their eyebrows, ears or touch their collar,” the guide says. “Women should comb their hair appropriately for age, occupation and situation.” Men should shave daily, women should wear light make-up and both sexes should keep their mouths clean.
Rules are already in place ordering taxi drivers to go easy on their garlic consumption so that visitors will not be assailed by the bad breath of a cabbie who had pork and chive dumplings – a cheap favourite – for lunch, and even breakfast.
There should be no public displays of affection, feet should be kept slightly apart or in the shape of a V when standing and a handshake should not last more than three seconds. The first should not be much of a problem in a society that is traditionally conservative – although young couples can be spotted at dusk cuddling on park benches.
As for dress, the booklet advises against more than three colour groups in clothing and exhorts women to avoid clashing colours. Shudders of horror will greet anyone who has rolled up his trouser legs – a popular sight among men trying to ease the summer heat on trains and planes or in official meetings.
Naked chests in public places will also attract a scolding – although the booklet gives no specific instructions on a particularly popular summer vogue among Chinese men: rolling up one’s vest so that it rests just below the nipples and exposes the belly to the summer breezes.
Women and girls get their fair share of fashion tips. Those of all ages should opt for slim skirts, but anyone with thicker legs should choose darker stockings. “Young girls can wear skirts three centimetres to six centimetres above the knee – but never too short. For middle-aged and older women, the skirt should be at least three centimetres below the knee.”
Leather skirts and transparent garments are not advised. “Clothes should not be too small, otherwise this makes people feel you are unreliable.” And fat people should avoid horizontal stripes.
These are just the latest in a slew of rules. A ban on spitting – accompanied by hefty fines – was introduced in 2006. However, few men pay attention: the pavements are splattered with gobs of phlegm and the espresso-machine sound of hawking can be heard everywhere.
Campaigns involving nearly a million volunteers are under way to to give etiquette tips at schools, universities and government offices. In some districts university students have been encouraged to visit villages and help to educate rural people.
Some of the advice may be such a cultural contradiction as to be impossible to implement. Don’t press others to drink at a banquet, and don’t fight over paying the bill. Both are essential to a successful evening.
A dressing down
Don’t
— Men should not allow their hair to grow over eyebrows, ears or collar
— Sport pyjamas in public
— Roll up trousers
— Bare chests
— Wear white socks with black shoes
— Wear high collar if they have a short neck
— Women should not wear leather skirts, transparent garments, clashing colours or more than three colour groups at once
— No resident should display affection in public
— Fight over who settles the bill
— Press others to drink at a banquet
Do
— Men should shave daily
— Plant their feet slightly apart, in the shape of a V
— Women should wear light make-up
— Comb hair appropriately for age, occupation and situation
— Darker stockings should be used to cover thicker ankles
— Match the length of skirt to age. Young girls can wear skirts three centimetres to six centimetres above the knee
— All residents should go easy on garlic and clean their mouths
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I think it is helpful to read this information-I also appreciate China's wanting the people to gain understanding into other cultures-just as much as I enjoy googleing to find out about how other people live in every other country around this very cool world
David, Scottsdale, USA
What's the link to the official site where there are nine pages of rules? I'd like to read it for myself.
Patrick, Hong Kong,
Just appalling!!!! what else can we expect from Beijing...diktats, diktats and more diktats.China may speak volumes about its globalisation and breaking the "red dragon" approach, but putting up sartorial rules, do's and don'ts about fashion tips..phew!!!We live in a free world and matured enough???
sandy, New Delhi, India
I am a Chinese gril.I'm sorry my English is very poor.But I think you-all can understand what my say.Because you are acumen.
The old man and the old woman came through"three nature disater" in 1959-1961.They're without food and clothing.Now they are rich,but you have poor custom.
yd.zhuang, nanning, china
Much of this is ridiculous. There is nothing obscene about a man with rolled-up trousers or a bare chest, and there is nothing abnormal about a woman showing her knees and not wearing makeup (when's the last time you saw a Chinese woman with eyebrows or lashes too pale to be seen without it?).
Lynn Gold, Mountain View, CA, USA
They want to introduce a few for visiting American tourists too - don't wear sandals with socks, eat in local restaurants and not McDonald's, don't think that shouting in English is the same as talking normally in Chinese and try interacting with people instead of constantly filming them
Mr R Spandit, New York, US
I am a Chinese. I am sure the report from Jane Macartney is not an 'order' from the government. Chinese people don't need this kind of 'order' and the government would not do this stupid thing. From her translation, I can see that so-called order is from a easy-understanding poem to remind people.
Lp.wen, edinburgh, uk
What an obscene display of nationalism, and commercialism the Olympics has become, and what an excuse this time for China to pretend it is not a centralised tyranny out-rivalling the Chinese Dynasties of long ago!! Sport? This has little to do with Sport, and everything to do with global power.
Paul Freeman, London, England
If only the British Government would issue similar advice to the Brits. Some of the sights I've seen here make you feel ill - including the fashion for the exposure of horrible veiny, hairy male legs every summer (in the City too!) and beachwear worn by both sexes everywhere you go.
Belinda, London, UK
I'll believe the Chinese when they release that guy who is in jail for protesting on the Net against the corruption involved in the building of the schools that collapsed durign the recent earthquake.
Kevin Straw, Leicester,
Perhaps our citizens could do with some advice about covering up and decorum?
Mary, Slamannan, Falkirk
Hmmm... I hope they won't be too disappointed by the likely degree of unkemptness of their visitors.
Ella, London,
I applaud the government in educating the locals on how to receive westerners but come on, fashion advice?? And fighting over the bill? This is a customary sign of giving face and respect!
jeannette, montreal, Canada
Governments shouldn't tell their people to tidy up because "The Jones' are coming over".
Graham, Ashbourne, Ireland
The lament happens after the old things are disposed of. Take foreign language travel books. Don't they all give you the feeling of tremendous loss in their writing of Beijing's demolished hutong? Why then applaud the move to a same culture practice? Why visit China then?
Hao Ren, Singapore, Singapore
I know a few people who need these rules in the US. How about not hawking in the first place. No spitting out bones at dinner. No conversation about weight and income as Chinese love to do. How about no speaking loudly at dinner!
John Stefano, Toronto, ON, Canada
This is one of the excellent side effects of the Olympics. It encourages good behavior. Kind of like if every house in a neighborhood hosted a revolving monthly party, there would be more incentive for the less civilized households to shape up and be presentable, increasing the overall quality.
shawn, Sacramento, USA
Why do foreigners look for places off the beaten track? Is it not to look for the real culture of the place that is already lost in the cities? Should China react to the pressure from the Western world to conform to their standards? People who think so should keep their visits to those countries.
Hao Ren, Singapore, Singapore
they should tell fat people not to wear horizontal stripes in the U.S., where it is more applicable anyway.
Sarah, Houston, U.S.A.
this is great, they should tell fat people not to wear horizontal stripes in the U.S. too (where it probably applies more). Actually they should rules regarding cleavage in the U.S. while they're at it. :)
Sara, Houston, Texas
Perhaps this also highlights a tendency we in the West have, to look down our noses and sneer at others in ways that are unhelpful also?
Greg, Wollongong, Australia
Sure, spitting and pushing in the queue is extemely anti-social. But telling people what to wear, how to wear it, such as colour co-ordination and hair length, is really going too far.
I lived in China for a long time and I love the Chinese people and hope the Olympic Games are a great success.
Marco, Bkk, Thailand
The Chinese people should be proud of these guidelines, good on them! Quite why a few Chinese feel they are under attack demonstrates that it is they that don't understand the western media, not the other way around.
Bruce, Lowestoft, UK
Dear Chinese friends:
The article criticize does not criticize the rules. It describes some social changes which the Olympics have brought. Some of the content is of interest to Westerners because it shows cultural differences. Unlike some other actions, this program will improve China's image.
James, Shanghai,
I would prefer garlic breath, spit on the sidewalk, and tasteless clothes, any day, over fashion advice from ruthless military police. This government will harvest the organs of political prisoners, and they care what color of socks you wear. If you care what I think, consider me a libertarian.
Andrew, Beamont, California, US
I congratulate the Chinese people for recieveing their guests with arms wide open. A polite and friendly people, who know the importance of laughing and having fun!
I for one deeply regret I cannot attend to the Olympics this Summer.
Alex, London,
That's just kind of "suggestion", we Chinese know better than you reporters how to deal with that. Foreign reporters can not understand China well. We live very happy here. DO NOT show you pity on us, pretending to be more civilized than we Chinese. That makes me sick.
Won, Shenzhen, China
I wonder what the Chinese think when they come to the States and see our young people skulking around with their pants so low their crack is showing, or the girls with their belly buttons bared and their jeans so tight the whole world is their gynecologist?
Jeff, Sioux Falls, USA
what's wrong with those just "advices"? if you don't like, never come here-Beijing.
fiona, fefei,
Chinese mainland 'social etiquette' indeed needs a serious reparation. I personally think it is a communist behavior, since I also encounter the same 'nasty' etiquette among the Russian for instance. And they just dont know that they are being rude. It is good that the government tell them that now.
JD, Oakland, USA
what's wrong with the advices? To keep the city clean,beautiful, and comfortable for both the citizens and westerners is wrong? i am really puzzled.
zhouhao, hefei,
I'm a Chinese and living in Beijing. And I haven't got such booklet! Maybe there is, however, everything listed there is just a advice! They are not enforced! All are for making foreigners feeling comfortable and happy while staying here. You should be happy that you are treated as VIP guest here.
Megan, Beijing, China
as funny as it is, they do need these lessons, it is not about east vs west, it is just plain good social behaviour. Not spitting fighting shouting etc is basic etiquette
david, nanjing,
The Western world should relaize they are entering an Eastern country with Eastern habits. If you don't like what you see then go home! What happened to: as in Rome, do as the Romans do!!! Feel free to spit wherever you like.
It's a FREE world, isn't it?
F. Burdett, Cleveland Qld, Australia
Too funny. Reminds me of something you might read in the 1950's. I especially enjoyed the line :Clothes should not be too small, otherwise this makes people feel you are unreliable.
I hope the Chinese people enjoy the games!
Catherine, Atlanta, USA
As a tourist I would like to see how the people of that country actually live not how the authorities would like them to live. I would also like to see the authorities try and get Australians to do these things. You would see people doing the exact opposite.
Woofa, Cairns, Australia
I just dont want to see a mad guy getting drunk in a street of London or on a train from York to London in 2012
Ran, York, UK
As with all "rules of face", people will simply ignore these and continue with their lives as per normal. Why u think there's still phlegm on the streets? When you see authority approaching, pull down your pant legs / put on a shirt,when they are gone, return to as you were- all with a naughty smile
Jay, Shanghai,
white socks with black shoes? affection in public? Come. On.
That's nazi-like
Kay, Sydney, Australia
Now how about leaving behind the Internet sites, going out and getting some of those many positive and uplifting stories in the streets of a great and vibrant city with normal people like you and me? Tell us something about this country we do not know and prove you are as open-minded as you claim.
Jay, Shanghai,
strange that it doesn't mention anything about the endemic fug of cigarette smoke...if they stopped all the beijing men from smoking that would probably cure the pollution problem in one stroke!!!
stephen, china, china
what a good idea for London Paris and Berlin,should they not smarten up there too,actually I like that chap sitting without a shirt infront of his house
maoltn, shanghai, china
Can we have these rules implemented in the English-speaking countries, please?
bob, melbourne, australia